Monday, September 30, 2024

Menu Plan Monday

 Still adjusting to feeding three people vs four, but we did a great job last week of eating all of our prepped freezer food. The freezer is looking good & ready for me to stock it with some soup for my lunches. 

Here's what's on our menu this week

  • Friday - pizza (cauliflower crust + regular)
  • Saturday - tacos
  • Sunday - grilled chicken + rice
  • Monday- leftover tacos
  • Tuesday - leftover grilled chicken + rice
  • Wednesday - chicken yakisoba (one of the last prepped freezer meals)
  • Thursday - carnitas (the other last prepped freezer meals)
  • Friday - leftovers
What about you? Are you adjusting your menu as the weather changes? I'm the only one who eats soup, so I make it & freeze it for lunches, as I can't get my other dinner diners to join me. ;-) 

Sunday, September 29, 2024

Sunday Happenings

The weekend is whizzing by. I went to a really relaxing yoga class yesterday (I need more yoga in my life, as I'm really not very flexible) & got some chores done around the house. I also made this crockpot chicken & dumplings recipe, which is always a winner. I'm the only soup eater in the house, so I had it for dinner last night, saved some for lunches this week, & then froze the rest. It will make an easy & delicious lunch on busy days.

Sam & I texted a bit more yesterday, and he's thrilled with his roommate, enjoying the food & feels like his classes will be good this year. Says he loves his calculus professor. 

Nick & I made more progress providing his academic record to one of the schools he's applying to. It's a super *fun* process where you enter every grade for every semester manually. He also has to enter middle school grades, as he took geometry & two years of Spanish in middle school, both of which are "required" high school classes for some colleges. Luckily, I requested a transcript of his middle school grades way back when Sam & I were applying last year, knowing that I would need the same for Nick. We also provided transcripts to another college, activated his accounts at a few other colleges (you use this to track your application, and each college has their own system). We have a spreadsheet keeping track of login details for each school. There's a lot of info to manage!

Nick worked at a soccer tournament yesterday to earn some extra money. He and Sam are such different creatures. Sam has spent none of the money he earned last summer, because he's still using money he earned two years ago. Nick, on the other hand, is a more prolific spender. ;-) This is a good time in his life to practice and experiment, to feel what it's like when you run out, and to understand how to better prioritize spending. 

As for today, here's what I'm up to:

  • Workout class
  • Laundry
  • Vacuum
  • Bathrooms
  • Kitchen
  • Pay Nick's physics tutor
  • Meet a friend for a walk
  • Package & mail an eBay sale
  • Make my to do list for the week ahead & review the calendar
  • List a bike on FB
What about you? What are you up to today?

Friday, September 27, 2024

Frugal Friday

Nick & I finished four more college applications (and, paid the application fees for four more colleges) , so trying hard to keep the rest of the spending under control. We are making great progress clearing out the freezer, so that's always a win. 

Saving on things we buy

  • I go through our credit card reward offers (e.g. earn 10% back at CVS by opting into the offer & saving it on your card) & select any that we might use. There's no harm in savings them, as they are free & just expire if you don't use them before the deadline. I occasionally save money on offers I've forgotten about, and it's always a pleasant surprise. I earned a few bucks back on gas by doing this. I tend to save all of the gas offers, as you never know. We typically get our gas at Costco, but in Moab & traveling back & forth to Corvallis, we stopped at other places & one of them qualified for a small cash back offer. 
  • I used a few grocery store coupons to save a bit (free avocado, free bananas, and $1.50 of of my total). I also uploaded my receipt to Fetch & iBotta, saving another $3 between the two. I rarely see produce coupons, so was happy to find a few to save money on things we would already be buying. 

Earning money

  • Listed a few things on FB Marketplace, as I clean out Sam's room. 
    • Moved Sam's desk into Nick's room, and sold Nick's desk. When the boys move into college apartments, we will definitely buy local items vs trying to move things from here. Made $90. 
    • Sold three card games, for another $25. 
  • Earned $460 in dividends, and moved those over to cover some expenses. We reinvest all dividends in our primary investment accounts, but we are trying hard not to draw down our savings right now, during this very expensive life phase, so opted to pull this out. This is not from our primary investment account, but a stock account that we are trying to sell off (to diversify our investments), & are just waiting on timing given tax implications. 
  • Earned $107 on my blog (the only amount I've earned in 13 or so years, so my hourly rate is fantastic. ;-)) I've been experimenting with the ads & changed them to hopefully be less irritating. Fingers crossed. 

Avoiding spending

  • Really limited grocery shopping this week, as we were out of town here & there, we no longer have DS18 eating at home, as well as we aren't also feeding his GF for most meals. That makes a big difference on how much food we need! I need to adjust our shopping & menu plans. DH loves to shop at Costco, but there are things we just no longer need that quantity of, and it will be an adjustment for the two of us to align on what we should buy there vs at the store in smaller quantities. ;-) 

Eating what we have

  • I've done a good job of eating up leftovers for various meals
  • Finished off the fantastic mango a friend left at our house while she was dropping off meals for Nick when we were gone. I'm usually kind of meh on mangoes, but this was incredible. 
  • Had a few delicious salads, with garden lettuce & tomatoes. 
  • Made Nick a smoothie using up strawberries a friend gave me, as well as some orange juice that is about to expire. It was a good post soccer game snack. 
  • Made muffins out of overly ripe bananas out on the counter, plus six bananas from the freezer. I left out one container of muffins for M this week, and the rest went into the freezer. No bananas currently in the freezer, which I always like to see. We've made a real dent in the freezer the last few weeks, which is always nice. 
  • I try to have salad with leftover protein for lunches, but had a day when I didn't have any leftovers. I dug into the freezer & found some buffalo chicken meatballs that no one seemed to like, and heated up a few of those to go on the salad. It was an unexpected combination, but was pretty good. 
  • Defrosted two chunks of French bread (we cut up Costco bread, wrap it & freeze it, as we can't use it all before it goes bad) to make cheesy bread for Nick. 
  • Found a container of white bean rosemary soup in the freezer, and had that for lunch with some cheese and an apple. It wasn't my favorite recipe, but that was the last of it. 

For others

  • Passed on a few job options to a friend who is looking for work. 
  • Did another volunteer call with a student I'm mentoring. 
What about you? Any wins to share?

Thursday, September 26, 2024

Thursday Things

 I went for a long hike with a friend yesterday, and we took a wrong turn, so it ended up being much more challenging than we expected. Glad I brought plenty of water. ;-) I also met up with another friend for a walk, but we kept it nice & slow after my long hike. I ended up with over 27k steps for the day, so plenty of activity happening! 

I've also picked a lot of tomatoes! I'm trying to pick only what we can eat over a couple of days, to keep them fresher longer on the vine. 


Here's what I'm up to today:
  • Workout class
  • Go to the bank to deal with CD rollover
  • Work in the garden
  • Call an insurance broker
  • Call the orthodontist for Nick
  • List a few things on eBay
  • Do back strengthening exercises
  • Have a call with the student I'm mentoring
  • Go to the store to pick up a few items
What about you? What are you up to today? For those gardeners out there, are you still harvesting? 


Tuesday, September 24, 2024

Tuesday Happenings

I had one good interview yesterday, and one interview where the recruiter never showed. This is the second time with this recruiter where he posts his calendar, asks me to select a spot, I choose one, and he....never joins the call. Last time claimed he messed up the time zones (he's in India). Fair enough, forgiven the first time. He apologized last time & pushed me hard to reschedule. I never even heard back from him after yesterday's snafu. Well, that tells me everything I need to know about the company. Also, as a recruiter, you have one job. If I were the hiring manager for this role, I would be so frustrated to know how my recruiter was handling (or, not handling) things. Anyway, oh well. 

I briefly spoke to Sam, after his academic orientation. He asked me to put additional dining dollars on his meal plan. ;-) I'm so happy that guy is having fun, meeting people & getting ready for classes tomorrow. Nick also starts his dual enrollment class at the local community college today, and he's looking forward to that. 

Otherwise, here's what I'm up to:

  • Follow up on networking emails/texts
  • Sort out eBay fail. I posted shoes (shoes from England) that were DH's, but used the wrong sizing. The buyer & I sorted it out, but not until I'd paid $20 for postage. Sigh. Totally my fault, and honestly, I'd put off listing these shoes because I knew they would be a hassle. I need DH to help me with a few things today, and maybe I will at least cover the postage & a bit more. Now I'm invested in getting these things sold. ;-) 
  • Work out class
  • Pick up ant bait at the hardware store. This is an ongoing problem at our house.
  • Figure out what chargers work for two old tablets. I'm hoping to sell them on Amazon, but need to know if they even power up. Otherwise, I'll put them in the e-waste, but hope to avoid that if they can be used. 
  • Set up an Ortho appointment for Nick
That's it from my side. What about you? What are you hoping to accomplish today? 

Monday, September 23, 2024

Menu Plan Monday

 I need to start getting adjusted to feeding three people vs four, which will be a bit of a process I think. Sam & I were the most aligned eaters, whereas M can't eat most carbs (food allergy) & Nick eats almost entirely carbs & doesn't love things mixed together. ;-) I'm mostly kidding, as Nick eats plenty of fruit & veggies, but is pickier about his protein options. Making a menu plan will be quite an adventure! My previous approach was to choose things that Sam & I would like, that could also be adapted for the other diners. Now it seems silly to optimize for just me, so who knows! I suppose some experimentation is in order.

  • Friday - chicken marsala (from the freezer)
  • Saturday - salad with grilled chicken
  • Sunday - barbecued burgers (freezer)
  • Monday - tacos (prepped meat from the freezer)
  • Tuesday - spaghetti & meatballs + garlic bread
  • Wednesday - leftover tacos
  • Thursday - leftover spaghetti & meatballs
  • Friday - pizza (cauliflower crust for M)
What's on your menu for the week?

Sunday, September 22, 2024

Sunday Happenings

It's been a pretty mellow weekend so far. Nick had a game yesterday (they got trounced), I made muffins, worked out, & continued organizing & cleaning out Sam's room. I sold a desk & some card games (from his room, they went into the "get rid of pile" before he left).

I received pictures from Sam's roommate's mom, as they stayed an extra day & took Sam & all of the suite mates out to dinner. Looked like everyone had a fabulous time, and it made me so relieved to see him happy & having fun with new friends. They were also playing corn hole & some other game out in the grassy area by their dorm. The weather in Corvallis this week is perfect, which is just what they needed.

Sam is reasonably introverted, and we talked a lot about needing to really put himself out there those first few weeks/months in order to meet friends & have fun, and really enjoy the college experience. So far, it looks like he's doing it! He's gone bouldering at the gym, attended the Friday night foam party (sponsored by the school), & yesterday attended his first college game. I don't think Sam even attended a high school game, so I was pretty shocked! He said they had a fantastic time!


Bonus that Oregon State beat Purdue yesterday, at the first game. :-) So, so glad he's having fun.

As for today:
  • Working out
  • Cleaning the house
  • Rustling up dinner
  • Prepping for two interviews tomorrow
  • Spending 2-3 hours with Nick on college applications
  • Working on a networking plan for next week
  • Doing a bit more gardening work, if I can get out before it gets too warm.
What about you? What are you up to today?


Friday, September 20, 2024

Frugal Friday

 

Saving on things we buy

  • Used a few sale coupons for items at the grocery store, and picked up the Friday Freebie protein bar, which Nick finished off before we got home from the store. Earned $5.30 from Fetch & another $1 from iBotta.
  • Picked up road trip snacks for M & Sam, as well as OTC medicine at CVS. Used rewards, and uploaded my receipts to iBotta & Fetch. Additionally, used my monthly CVS credit. 

Earning money

  • Had enough Fetch points to cash in for a $25 Amazon gift card.
  • Sold a tank top & pair of shoes on eBay.

Avoiding spending

  • At Sam's request, he really wanted his Thanksgiving flight booked before he left for college (so he can see his girlfriend), so I got that booked. I was able to use up a flight credit from some cancelled flight of yore, as well as a gift card to cover the very expensive cost. 
  • Received two free snack boxes on the flights. Brought home the snacks from the second box, as neither of us were hungry. 
  • We didn't need a couple of items that we bought for Sam's college move in, so I brought them home in case we need them for Nick. 

Eating what we have

  • I've been making lunches for the teens, to use up on hand items & ensure nothing goes to waste.
  • We've also had plenty of lettuce, herbs & peppers from the garden, as well as a big resurgence of tomatoes. We have *a lot* of tomatoes!
  • Brought home leftovers for our Sunday night dinner out (Sam's choice for our last family Sunday dinner for a while). Ate those for lunch one day. 
  • Stretched leftover egg roll in a bowl by adding another package of coleslaw mix on the second go round. I also prefer to make it this way, as the cabbage is much better when not reheated a second time. 
  • Found a breakfast sandwich in the freezer (Sam's favorites), after he'd left for college, so had that for breakfast one morning.
  • Ate leftovers for lunch, and had some eclectic meals. :-) Cleaned the fridge so I could see exactly what was available.
  • Pulled chicken marsala out of the freezer, and had that for 2 dinners. 

For others

  • Helped two other parents get supplies for their students to college. We were driving & had extra room in our car, so our posted on our family alias & had plenty of folks who wanted to take us up on my offer, as they were flying. It was nice to be able to help out & save them an extra checked bag or the postage required to mail. 
What about you? Any wins to share? 

Thursday, September 19, 2024

Back from college move in

The last 48 hours have been a whirlwind. We were both up at 4 on Tuesday, getting all of the last minute stuff packed (still forgot the toothbrush charger, despite my best efforts. I'm not exactly at my peak at 4 in the morning ;)). Sam slept for the first few hours & M drove. Then they swapped & Sam drove the rest of the way. I flew to Portland, picked up all of Sam's gear at my sister's (we originally weren't sure if he was going to bring his car, and/or get a parking permit, so we had everything shipped to her) & drove to Corvallis. 

We met up at the hotel, handed off a box to one of the families that we offered to help, and had a fabulous dinner across the street from where we were staying. It was a super early night for everyone & then M & I got up in the morning to work out. Sam slept, unsurprisingly. ;-) 

We found the residential parking lot for Sam's car, and then unpacked & moved him into his dorm. Huge props to OSU. The move in process was fantastic. Lots of people to help, plenty of parking, super friendly people around, etc. We had him all unpacked & moved in before his roommate arrived. I think we brought just the right amount of stuff. We had lunch with the roommate & his parents before we took Sam to pick up a few extra supplies & then dropped Sam off for a last hug (and, tears from me). 

M & I drove back to Portland & got on a late flight home, so we would only be gone for one night from Nick. (We had a friend stay with him, and his parents kept a close eye on them.) 

I'm all bleary eyed this morning, and missing him, but Sam was so excited & happy yesterday when we left. It helped so much to see him so ready to kick off this incredible adventure. I'm thrilled for him. 

Today is going to be all about the coffee! And, working on a schedule for the rest of the college tasks for Nick. We've made good progress, but need to focus on the remaining tasks. Oh, and the house is a wreck, so some cleaning as well. 


Monday, September 16, 2024

Menu Plan Monday

 As I mentioned in my previous post, the teens watching the debate cleared us out of food! I suppose it's a good thing that we are entering a new week with no leftovers. ;-) 

  • Friday - I made an eclectic dinner based on what the three diners wanted. Pasta & meatballs for myself & Nick. M had no meatballs but did eat spring rolls. Everyone had salad and/or fruit.
  • Saturday - Egg roll in a bowl
  • Sunday - out to dinner at Sam's favorite restaurant, for a goodbye dinner
  • Monday - apricot chicken (freezer)
  • Tuesday - out of town for college drop off. Will eat out. 
  • Wednesday - home super late from college drop off. Will eat at the airport.
  • Thursday -  leftover egg roll in a bowl
  • Friday - leftover apricot chicken
What about you? What's on your menu this week?

Sunday, September 15, 2024

Cost of Moab trip

 I always like to recap how much a trip costs, for myself & for anyone who is curious. It's a helpful exercise for me as well, when I look back on our annual travel expenses. 

Here were my expenses for Moab:

  • Travel to/from airport - got a ride from Sam on the way to the airport, and from M on the way home. No out of pocket spending. 
  • Flights - covered by miles, minus $11.20 in fees
  • Rental car - I covered the return flight home for my friend using my miles, and she covered the rental car using her travel points. No out of pocket spending.
  • Gas for the rental car - $67.52. I covered gas & a few other expenses, while my friend covered things like the park pass, etc. We flew into Salt Lake City, and Moab is quite a drive, hence the gas costs. We also drove around for various hikes.
  • Lunch at the airport when we landed - $16.86
  • Lunch for both of us at the airport before our flight home - $40.46
  • A tshirt for Nick, who normally doesn't request souvenirs, but is obsessed with Moab - $27.91
  • Various groceries = $70.42. This included a zippered cooler bag that came home with me, two bags of frozen peas (which served as our makeshift cooler for the car), extra water, a few nibbles for the room, etc. 
  • Three nights lodging, plus 3 dinners, 2 lunches, & a breakfast. Also included a free yoga class - $1000 (my half)
Total spent for the trip = $1234

This doesn't include a few things I bought for this trip, but will use on other hiking trips. I didn't track these as carefully, so some estimates
  • A 3L bladder to hold water - $30 or so
  • Hiking boots/socks - $140
  • Electrolyte water tablets - $20 (have 3/4 or so still left)
  • Hiking pants - $60
I already had plenty of workout outfits that were fine. I bought hiking pants, but didn't end up wearing them, because it was really, really warm while we were there.

Altogether, it was a totally reasonable trip & I think we did well on the cost. The hotel offered packed lunches that we purchased for both hiking days. (included: a sandwich, chips, piece of fruit, cookie & a drink for $18). The dinners were fantastic, and while the lodge was a bit more expensive than an off property restaurant, we loved the convenience of eating at the lodge after a long day of hiking. 

Do you track your travel expenses? 

Saturday, September 14, 2024

Saturday Things

First up, for visual interest, here's a photo of the ranch we stayed at in Moab. It was SO peaceful. They had horses, and the little lodges were along the Colorado River. You could hear the sounds of the river in the evening. I loved the location. The second photo is the view at dinner from the lodge restaurant. An absolutely stunning location all around. 





It's been getting real around here, with helping Sam pack for college & Nick's college applications (first acceptance came in!) I've known for a long time that Nick will be leaving for college a year after Sam, but... it definitely feels more "real" at the moment. 

I've taken a couple of days off of working out, thanks to some blisters from my hiking socks, but I definitely need a workout today. Here's what else is on my agenda:

  • Menu plan for the week
  • Shopping list
  • Grocery store
  • Mail an eBay sale
  • Help Sam with packing
  • Laundry
  • Clean the house (it's a wreck!)
  • Book Costa Rica tour
What about you? What are you up to today?

Friday, September 13, 2024

Frugal Friday and Moab is beautiful

First of all, Moab (Arches & Canyonlands National Parks) are two of the most stunning places I've ever been. The trip was fabulous, my hip was totally fine, I did some challenging hikes & had an incredible time with my friend. I'm now back, totally in the swing of family life again (soccer, AP test registration, college stuff for Nick, college move in prep for Sam, laundry, groceries, etc). It's so nice to be home, but this trip inspired me to visit more national parks when we are empty nesters. A few photos, although it's very hard to capture the scale. 













Once again, so, so many expenses over the last few weeks (AP exams for spring, Moab trip, etc). 

Saving on things we buy

  • We are doing a few requested dinners for Sam, ahead of him moving out in just a few days! We took advantage of an offer at PF Changs (one of his favorites), along with a gift card & spent $40 for a 3 course meal for four. We had LOTS of leftovers, which was perfect, as that filled in for a bunch of lunches with Sam & his girlfriend. We ordered: 1/2 soup & 1/2 salad, lettuce wraps, 2 order beef & broccoli & 2 orders of orange chicken. It was a lot of food! 

Earning money

  • I've been pretty diligent about listing things on eBay, and sold a pair of shoes. 

Avoiding spending

  • Nick's weekend game in Fresno got cancelled due to the excessive heat, so we saved the cost of a meal out. I think the other club is actually pushing for a forfeit (which, is a little crazy, because the heat + humidity makes it a cancel according to US Soccer), which would save us a future trip to Fresno. 
  • I brought protein bars & hydration tablets from home for the hiking trip. 

Eating what we have

  • We've been trying to really use things up, particularly to clear up some freezer space. I made fajitas from prepped meat in the freezer one night. 
  • I made Nick a lunch out of an assortment of fridge items: pears, leftover meatballs & some Mac & cheese lingering in the fridge. 
  • Nick invited his classmates over for a debate viewing party (they needed to watch it for his AP Government class) & they cleared out every scrap of food in our house: leftover PF Changs, leftover Persian food from another get together, pizza M ordered, all of our fruit & veggies, snacks from the pantry, etc. We had 20+ teens in our house! I came home to a very empty fridge last night. 

For others

  • We planned to bring a cheesecake to a family get together, and didn't end up using it. It was a really nice bakery cheesecake, and the presentation was lovely. None of us are huge cheesecake lovers, so I posted it on Buy Nothing & a woman was celebrating a milestone birthday for her dad, who happened to adore cheesecake. Win, win. 
  • Matched with another person to mentor on the college front, and provided informal mentoring to two other people. 
How about you? Any wins to share? 


Monday, September 9, 2024

Menu Plan Monday

I'm out of town for most of the week, but here's the rough plan.

  • Friday - chicken fajitas (from the freezer)
  • Saturday - spaghetti & meatballs + garlic bread
  • Sunday - grilled burgers & watermelon
  • Monday - out of town. Likely leftover spaghetti & meatballs for the others
  • Tuesday - out of town. Likely leftover burgers for the others
  • Wednesday - out of town. Likely pizza for the others
  • Thursday - driving
  • Friday - TBD
What about you? What's on your menu plan this week? 

Saturday, September 7, 2024

Saturday Happenings

Nick & I made more progress on his college applications, & I was able to organize the list of remaining work into buckets of essays. It's been very helpful to see what's ahead & where he needs to focus. Our goal is to have the remaining applications done by 10/15 (deadline is 11/1), leaving the three that don't open up until October 1st to do after that. He starts a college class towards the end of September, and school soccer begins in November, so he really needs to get as much done as possible early in the cycle. He's super swamped with course work this semester as well, so the business will continue!

We treated Sam to PF Changs last night (one of his favorites). It was *somewhat* reasonable, as I used a $15 offer, plus a gift card, and we did the "back to school bundle", which came with one appetizer, soup/salad & one entree per person for $20. We picked up, to minimize the rest of the cost. It yielded a big dinner for last night, and eat least 2-3 lunches for Sam & his girlfriend (she's been eating most meals with us this summer). 

Sam & I also went to the bank yesterday, and I got added to his new savings account, so I can set up automatic transfers for college. We are beginning a new process where he is managing more of his expenses, within a budget. Hopefully that will help him with the adult process of managing his money. He's saved up quite a bit from his summer jobs over the last three years.

As for today, M's cousins invited us over to swim & have dinner. We haven't seen them in about a year, so it will be great to catch up. Nick had a soccer game in Fresno, which was cancelled due to excessive heat & humidity. No one is sad to miss it, as Fresno is very far from our house for a soccer game.

Here's what else we are up to!

  • I'm going to a workout class this morning
  • List a couple of things on eBay
  • Work with Nick on college essays (what a treat all around ;)
  • Finish up some volunteer work
  • Wrap up the packing for my hiking trip next week
  • Laundry
  • Dust
What about you? What are you up to today? 

Friday, September 6, 2024

Frugal Friday

 We spent a lot on the college application process this week, so we need to buckle down on other expenses, particularly given my hiking trip next week. A few wins scattered here & there.

Saving on things we buy

  • Picked up a bunch of things I needed at CVS, and earned $15 in CVS rewards for a future purchase. I also earned $7.10 via iBotta & $.75 via Fetch.
  • Similarly, picked up sparkling water at the grocery store, and used a $.50 off coupon, and earned another $2 via iBotta & $2 via Fetch.

Earning money

  • Listed a few new things on eBay, which I often find has the bonus effect of boosting views to older listings.
  • Did a consulting call & earned $150 for an hour.
  • I attempted to give away a pair of Nick's soccer cleats (used only for reffing, so in good shape) on Buy Nothing. No takers. Then I attempted to donate them to our soccer club cleat exchange. Forgot them in the back of my car. Since I didn't want them hanging around my house & they were in too good of condition to drop off at the shoe recycling place, I listed them on eBay. Sold them in a few hours & made $25. Who knew? 

Avoiding spending

  • Paused Sam's gym membership, while he's away at college
  • Treated Sam to Subway sandwiches (another favorite) with a gift card, and a $6.99 foot long offer. 

Eating what we have

  • I'm trying to make sure Sam's favorite things get eaten before he leaves (like the chicken taquitos that are his go to lunch), and also staying on top of what we're buying. Our grocery bill has been insane lately!
  • We've continued to eat lots of garden lettuce & herbs, as well as peppers, but only have two ripe tomatoes left. I will definitely mourn the end of tomato season. 
  • M bought steak for Labor Day, and we had that for dinner with sauteed green beans (from a neighbor's garden). We saved the other half of the steak & grilled those on Wednesday night. We didn't know that Sam was bringing his GF for dinner, so M & I split one mini steak & I filled up on beans. Probably healthier. ;-) 
  • I had the other half of my Subway sandwich as lunch the following day. 

For others

  • The great clean out of Sam's room continues, and I've given away a ton on Buy Nothing
  • Had another call with a student I'm mentoring on the college application process.
What about you? Any wins to share?

Thursday, September 5, 2024

Thursday Things

 It's been a busy week so far, with lots happening on the college front. Nick & I have been making a ton of progress, and we are feeling good about where we are on the application side.

Yesterday, we:

  • Finalized all of his school requirements that are due in mid-September (document for teachers writing letters of recommendation, parent questionnaire, and a large school report containing major & deadlines for every college)
  • Requested SAT & AP scores to be sent to each college he's applying to. (That cost close to $500, btw. The process isn't cheap!)
  • Went through & edited his list of activities for the Common App. He has SO many activities, because that guy is crazy busy: two school sports x4 years with various awards to list, club sports x2, volunteer service & board of directors for a local organization, school activities... There was a lot to cover, and the very limited word count made this a challenge.
  • Researched major selection at most of his colleges. Need to finish the rest today. He wants to be a mechanical engineer, which is a very competitive major at most colleges. As such, he might need to have two potential majors listed for each college, and there are a lot of restrictions to research, with each school having a very different approach. 
  • We submitted the applications to two colleges which don't require essays! Woohoo! Two are submitted. It felt nice to make a tiny big of progress on that front. These are the easiest schools to apply to, and going through the process helps you learn a lot about what you need to do for the other schools, so this was a very helpful exercise.
For the rest of today:
  • Workout class
  • Meet & greet with a recruiter for a job
  • Work on a couple of other job applications
  • Clean the house
  • Figure out dinner. We were supposed to be having leftovers, but we've had a lot of guests this week, and I don't think there are enough leftovers to go around!
  • Laundry
  • Pack for hiking trip
  • Additional college application work
  • Daily chores
What about you? What are you up to this week?

Wednesday, September 4, 2024

September Goals

 September is a big month for us! We are moving Sam to college (oh my, this is going to be an emotional month) & I'm heading out on a hiking trip to Moab with a friend next week. I suppose that will be a good distraction ahead of the college drop off? Nick also has a ton of school related college tasks to complete, and is generally incredibly busy with: his dual enrollment college class starting, as well as club soccer & taking 3 AP classes. Phew. It's going to be a wild ride this month!

Here are my goals in September.

Financial:

  • Achieve savings goal. I'm removing the stock component, because it's highly variable, we don't control it & it is not a reflection of whether we are actually saving anything. This is making it much easier to track if we are saving money, or our savings accounts are just increasing due to stock gains. My goal is to save $2k more in September.
  • Confirm that M's BA miles were extended.
  • Freezer challenge: use a minimum of six items
  • Get car sold 
  • Update CDs that are renewing
  • List 5 items on eBay

Family:

  • Get Sam successfully moved in to college & transitioned
  • Update Sam's room (we are getting rid of some furniture, & potentially getting a bigger bed for the room)
  • Help Nick with college essays/applications & achieve all school deadlines

Fitness:

  • Continue PT
  • 15 strength workouts
  • Follow the No S diet 15 days & track calories daily
  • Have a successful hiking trip to Moab
Personal:
  • Complete daily tasks 20 times (meditate, language lesson, journal)
  • Get together with friends
  • Declutter 25 items
  • Focus on one career path I'm interested in, and go much deeper
  • Spend time on volunteer role
  • Play pickleball 3x 


What about you? Do you have any goals for September? Fill us in!

Tuesday, September 3, 2024

August Goals Recap

 August was an action packed month, and we squeezed a lot in! Here's how I did with my goals. 

Financial:

  • Achieved savings goal. - We stayed even for the month, and maintained our savings. Hoping for better results in September. 
  • Confirm that M's BA miles were extended - I need to confirm. We forgot to do this
  • Sort out United credit plan - done! We're going to Spain!
  • Freezer challenge: get rid of a minimum of six items. - done. Gave away a huge package of popsicles Nick got from work, used up freezer bananas & fruit, and used up quite a few frozen meals. 

Family:

  • Have a successful back to school (last one for K-12!) for Nick - yes, it's gone smoothly
  • Help Nick with college essays/applications - we've made good progress, but the deadlines really ramp in September
  • Help Sam with college readiness, deciding what to bring for college & declutter his room - we made a lot of good progress on the decluttering front
  • Plan one fun family activity, as a reward for Nick winning the Presidential Volunteer award - yes, we squeezed in a fabulous camping trip to Big Sur, so he could try out his new camping gear

Fitness:

  • Finish Hood to Coast relay - nope, couldn't do it this year
  • Start PT for hip & back issues - yes, done & have been moderately consistent & noticing an improvement in my hip. Back remains basically the same. 
  • Stretch 12 times - yes
  • 12 strength workouts - yes
  • Follow the No S diet 15 days & track calories daily - I actually did half of this (track calories daily), but only 8 days of the No S diet. My daily calories were, on average, 1492. This is pretty eye opening for me, and I've been focusing on tracking  more, so I can have a better sense of how to maintain my weight as I enter menopause. 
Personal:
  • Meditate 20 times - I only meditated 9 times
  • Get together with friends - coffee & hikes with friends
  • Practice Farsi/Spanish 20 times - 21 times
  • Declutter 25 items - crushed this goal in August, thanks to decluttering Sam's room
  • Continue exploring jobs - yes, lots of time spent on this
  • Spend time on volunteer role - yes, I'm now mentoring two students

What about you? How did you do with your August goals? 

Monday, September 2, 2024

Menu Plan Monday

 Here's what's on our menu this week:

  • Friday - out, camping
  • Saturday - leftovers (grilled chicken or tacos)
  • Sunday - M is making kebabs & rice
  • Monday - Grilled steak & caprese salad
  • Tuesday - leftover kebabs & rice
  • Wednesday - chicken yakisoba (freezer)
  • Thursday - chicken shawarma (freezer)
  • Friday - pizza
What about you? What's on your menu this week? Any recipes to share? Always looking for new options!

Sunday, September 1, 2024

Camping was a success

 I can't believe we've never been camping with the boys before, but it's true! We had such a fabulous time & Big Sur was absolutely stunning. It was the perfect wrap up for summer, and a last hurrah before Sam leaves for college. M & I will definitely head back for a longer trip, with more hiking. 

We camped under the redwoods, had a fabulous dinner, lots of laughs, car karaoke, and a gorgeous (and super challenging) hike. I feel so lucky that the boys get along so well. Sam is so easy going, and Nick always has big dreams (the hardest hikes, making Sam carry the tent around everywhere to "train" for backpacking, etc) & they are just so much fun together. 




I can't believe today is September! I'll be back with an update on my August goals, as well as setting goals for September.