I'll be back with an October goal recap soon. For now, here are my November goals!
Financial:
- Achieve savings goal. If we sell a car, that will get added on top of the savings goal.
- Mini freezer clean out:
- Eat 1/2 of the pizza in the freezer
- Use up the cranberries
- Sell the white car
- Sell fitness watch
Family:
- Help Nick with final college application & scholarship essay
- Sort out plans for winter break
- Finalize all travel plans for Sam
- One fun activity with the boys, while Sam is in town for Thanksgiving
- 2 dates with M
Fitness:
- 15 strength workouts
- Follow the No S diet 15 days & track calories daily
- Schedule MRI
- Lose 2 lbs
Personal:
- Complete daily tasks 20 times (meditate, language lesson, journal)
- Get together with friends
- Declutter 25 items
- Network 2x
- Continue exploring jobs.
- Spend time on volunteer role
- Come up with more structure in my daily routine
What about you? What are you hoping to accomplish in November?
Other than working on another degree, a part time teaching gig, and civic involvement, I have been a SAHM since…forever. Everyone is different, but when I first left the workplace, the lack of structure in the daily routine was almost overwhelming. For me, for us, structure is important for ALL aspects of our well being. The rub is, building structure is harder than it seems. I actually mourned leaving the workplace, and part of that was due to the lack of order of the days. (But I was too physically busy to recognize that until the fourth kid was born). Among other things, I learned that I could say, simply, and with no guilt, “No thank you, I am unavailable” even though it translated into “that’s bath and bedtime, I can’t miss that, because I need the post bedtime downtime, avec wine, perhaps, to be able to face my next day.” With one starting school, structure became more apparent to the outside eye. Now, they’re (kinda’ sorta’) flying the nest, and I am sensing that the structure needs a remodel again! And yeah, I get it, I am SO FORTUNATE to have the choice to stay home. That doesn’t mean my time isn’t valuable , and not worthy of careful spending, especially by myself! All this to say, let me know what works for you, and have a great November! (Meg B.)
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