Monday, July 27, 2026

Fitness Monday

I started feeling more like myself on Thursday, which makes sense, as I was just coming off of the antibiotics. I was also able to wear shoes by Thursday (hurrah), which meant walks, and getting back into my workout class. 

Weight: 150.9, up about a pound from the last time I posted. 

Calories: 1,378

Steps: 13,884

Workouts:

  • 2 - 30 minute elliptical workouts
  • 1 - 45 minute elliptical workout
  • 1 three mile walk
  • Two hard workout classes (yay for getting in strength training again!)
  • 1 seven mile hike with a friend

Goals for the week:

  • Keep the calories in check
  • Take advantage of the vacation & family time & get in lots of family walks
Another health & fitness win: Going to the dermatologist today for my annual skin check up, which is important for everyone, but particularly me as I'm quite pale & take a medicine that makes me more sensitive to the sun.

What about you? How did you do with your health & fitness goals this week? 

Sunday, July 26, 2026

Menu Plan Sunday

 We will be on the Oregon coast with family for most of the week, so this represents a bit of a hybrid menu plan. We did plan out our meals when together, and have rented a house with a kitchen.

  • Friday - M & I had leftovers - fried rice, meatballs in teriyaki sauce, topped with a peanut slaw
  • Saturday - easy chicken curry + rice
  • Sunday - Philly cheese steaks
  • Monday - leftover curry & rice
  • Tuesday - My parents are making & bringing lasagna & bread to the rental house
  • Wednesday - M is grilling burgers. My mom is making potato salad
  • Thursday - My is grilling hot dogs & my mom is making macaroni salad
  • Friday - we are heading to my parents & having additional folks join, celebrating my BFF's daughter's engagement. We are having pizza, cake & champagne
  • Saturday - family party. M is grilling chicken, and we are doing a make your own pita wrap buffet, with pita, feta, tomatoes, onions, cucumber & tzatziki. There will also be fruit salad, green salad, maybe a few more sides (definitely appetizers before hand, & dessert afterward)
What's on your menu plan for the week ahead? 

Friday, July 24, 2026

Frugal Friday

 Future travel planning

  • I booked a hotel in Palm Springs for M's upcoming 2027 days off in March. He prefers to line up his time off for the freebie vacation days, which is fine. We had originally discussed Sedona (booked with Hyatt points), but landed on Palm Springs instead, so we can also go to Joshua Tree. I've never been to Palm Springs, so I'm looking forward to it, and it sounds like March will be a great time to visit. I used Chase travel rewards to book a Hyatt hotel, and after the rewards, it came out to $540. I also received a $250 statement credit back for the type of hotel I booked, dropping the price to $290 total, for three nights. The reservation also came with a $100 resort credit, which I'm sure we will use for a drink by the pool, or something like that. 

Saving on things we buy

  • Used my $10 CVS rewards, plus a few cash back offers to restock some of my travel toiletries, while I was waiting to pick up a prescription. 
  • Went to the store to pick up a few things, and noticed Ben & Jerry's on sale for $2.99. I also had a $2 off coupon when you buy two, so I bought two containers for a total of $3.99, which is a pretty great deal. Since I was at the store, went ahead & picked up the weekend freebie, which was some sort of gummy candy.
  • Uploaded all of my receipts to Fetch. 
  • Earned a $2 cash back reward on my credit card for gas.

Earning money

  • Just the usual around here, but also met with both HR & benefits to understand timing of leaving & impact to end of year type things. 

Avoiding spending

  • Used a BOGO free entree to buy lunch for myself and Sam at Chipotle, and paid with a gift card. It's been rough coming back with jet lag, and not feeling good. Cooking has been low on the priority list.  
  • I ordered a new Kindle when mine stopped working. I read A LOT, and it's a daily activity at my house. Luckily, M was able to repair it through a variety of technical workarounds. We were both pretty surprised, as my older edition is no longer supported. I returned the newly purchased Kindle, but it appears I've received a temporary free subscription to Kindle Unlimited, so I will definitely take advantage of that and ensure I cancel again. I really enjoy Kindle Unlimited, as the library doesn't have a tremendous selection of Kindle formatted ebooks. I will binge read in the mean time!

Eating what we have

  • My appetite has been a bit low, thanks to the infection, antibiotics + jet lag. As a result, the Chipotle bowl above served as three meals (two lunches, one dinner) for me. Definitely not bad. 
  • I also made the most of the Costco grain salad + rotisserie chicken, and that was multiple meals as well.
  • One night, we had bonus diners, so I added a bag of Trader Joes fried rice to the dinner, which easily stretches things out, even if it wasn't very "on theme" for the rest of the meal. 

For others

  • Provided meals & a place to shower for one of DS19's friends who is in a bit of a family transition. 
What about you? Any wins to share? 

Thursday, July 23, 2026

The road to recovery

 I find myself quite impatient at the moment, even knowing that this is part of the process, and recovering & getting back to "myself" is a bit of a journey. 

I finally updated my fitness tracker. I've been in a bit of denial, and tracking it made it feel a little too "real". Rather than my typical every day some kind of workout, it's been much more hit or miss - many weeks where I've had 1-2 lighter workouts. I had a one week work trip to LA, a week trip to Tokyo, and two weeks in Greece. Greece included plenty of walking, but I didn't go to the gym once while there. And now recovering from the foot infection.

I really enjoy hard workouts, and they (typically) give me energy. Without them, I feel a little blah & lower energy. That said, the lower energy is also related to the new medicine I've started, so there are lots of physical adjustments happening, at the same time my schedule has been absolutely wild. 

Unsurprisingly, I've lost no weight over the last couple of months, and I feel like I've lost muscle mass. As an impatient person (always, always impatient), I keep reminding myself that my body is going through things, and I've also had life. But, I am committed to getting back into shape & feeling more like myself. 

For visual interest, here's a photo of someone (Nick) who is very active & adventurous at the moment, preparing for a camping, climbing & backpacking trip to Yosemite. This is ultimate boy style packing. ;-) No list, just chaos. 



As my health has evolved & changed, I mentioned that I'll be "retiring" soon, and by retiring, I mean no longer having a "big career" job, but taking some time off, and then perhaps working part time, or volunteering, etc. We are lucky that we have saved a lot to prepare for this time period, and I want to make my health a top priority. That's very difficult to do with my current role (I traveled 8 times in less than a year!) & the expectations, hours, etc. I'm still finalizing details & timing of leaving, but it is in motion & conversations have begun. 

I'm looking forward to the next adventure, and taking care of my health & frequent workouts will be a core part of that "new" life. 

Would love to hear how you weave health & fitness into your life, whether you are working or retired!

Monday, July 20, 2026

Minimal Fitness Monday

 Let's just say that workouts have been hard to achieve lately, as well as few & far between. I did work out on the Saturday I flew to Tokyo, and then got in two elliptical workouts at the hotel gym before I realized I had an infection & felt unwell. 

Today was my first mini workout since I got home. I did a 30 minute slow workout on the elliptical, with shoes but no socks, to reduce friction with a shoe. I've been dying to get in some sort of a workout, so this was a little mini something.

Otherwise, I've been focused on sleeping & eating well, and have done a decent job with both. I'll be back with an actual proper fitness update next week, so fingers crossed I can get in a few more workouts, some walking, & strength training - which I'm really missing.

Hope you are all doing well with your health & fitness goals! 

Sunday, July 19, 2026

Menu Plan Sunday

I have jury duty this week, although I'm already off for Monday. I'll call in each evening to find out if I need to report the following morning. It makes planning a bit challenging, thus an easy to prep & heat menu plan for the week ahead. 
  • Friday - leftover Chipotle bowl (me) + shrimp (DH)
  • Saturday - rotisserie chicken + grain salad
  • Sunday - grilled hot dogs
  • Monday - leftover rotisserie chicken + grain salad
  • Tuesday - leftover hot dogs
  • Wednesday -Southwest chicken skillet
  • Thursday - other leftovers, or TBD
  • Friday -  leftover Southwest chicken skillet
What's on your menu plan for the week? 

Friday, July 17, 2026

No Frugal Friday this week

I got home yesterday & went straight to urgent care. My left foot got infected & I have cellulitis, which isn't a huge deal, but requires antibiotics. I spent most of yesterday hanging out at urgent care, the pharmacy (a whole fiasco ensued there) & then resting with my foot elevated. 0/10, do not recommend any of this with jet lag & overall being exhausted. 


I chatted with the family yesterday & then headed to bed at 6 pm. I slept for 11.5 hours last night, so I was apparently very tuckered out. ;-) Will be back with more updates, but if you have any wins to share, please comment! I will live vicariously through all of you.


Tuesday, July 14, 2026

Mission accomplished, & other Tokyo things

I was able to secure a bra! One of the commenters suggested it, but Uniqlo was also recommended by a local, so I made my way there on Monday. Sam also sent a few requests, and I found some things for him. And yes, the sizing is... not even remotely close. Local helped me figure out how to translate & figure out something that would work. It's actually quite a nice bra, so maybe it will become a staple! 

I wore my very regular flats to walk to the stores, and because it was so hot & humid, my feet swelled up ... A LOT. As a result, I have two huge blisters, and it's very uncomfortable to wear any shoe. I need to find more band-aids today, but it's a busy day & I'm not super jazzed to get outside in the heat & humidity with my work clothes, makeup & presentation look to try & track down some band-aids. I am also absolutely wrecked tired. 

Practice presentation was a challenge, as the setup wasn't working & the tech support folks only spoke Japanese. We used a lot of translation apps to try & help us communicate. But, all of the practice worked, because first round of the presentations went well yesterday. Second & final round is today.

On deck for today:

  • No workout, because my feet are toast with the blisters
  • Morning meetings x2
  • A few work projects
  • Presentation
  • Meeting with the skip boss
  • Source band-aids
  • Pack & check in for flight
Also, breakfast this morning. Fruit is again delicious. 





Sunday, July 12, 2026

Tokyo time

Trip recap to far...

I slept for about an hour on the flight, but the JAL business class was better than I remembered. I didn't eat much on the flight, and by the time I was hungry, they were done with meal service. My mistake. Immigration was an absolute fiasco. Taxi line outside was hot & sweaty & also surprisingly long. I'm shocked by how many tourists there are in July - July is not a month I'd recommend to visit Japan, with the heat, rain & humidity. 

Got to the hotel & was put on a high floor (yay!), which definitely helps with sleeping, as you can hear street noise (ambulances, in particular) if you are on the lower floors. Ordered room service, unpacked & took a bath. Went to bed at 7 pm. Woke up at 3:30 am, because #jetlag.

Went to the gym, then stopped by the club lounge to get breakfast. Club access is available with my Hyatt Globalist benefits, and is super valuable. It saves me from having to do a bunch of expense reports (and, saves the company money, I suppose). The fruit was delicious. 


On the less great side, I wear a sports bra (with additional clothes over it!) when I travel on international flights, to make it more comfortable for potential naps. I've now come to realize that I forgot my bra. Folks, I have all dressy business wear & they definitely need a bra. I'm also in a place where I don't wear, shall we say, a standard Japanese bra size. Oh good lord. How is this going to go?! I need to move some meetings & find a shop that will work. Sweet mercy, wish me luck!

Saturday, July 11, 2026

Saturday Happenings

 I slept well (hurrah) & got up & had a bit of time to enjoy my coffee & then get in a workout. I've just finished packing & checking over my "last minute packing" list, and am heading to the airport in 30 minutes or so. 

When I arrive in Tokyo, it will be about 3 pm local time. This is actually pretty ideal from an arrival standpoint, as I will attempt to follow my standard plan: check in, work out, unpack, eat a light dinner & head to bed. My goal will be to stay awake until 8 pm, but that will be heavily dependent upon how/if I sleep at all on a flight. I'm flying Japan Airlines, and their business class (at least on the route I'm taking) is quite a bit smaller than United, for example. They also still have the business class where someone has to climb over you to access the aisle, if you are asleep. I believe this is also the kind with an ottoman vs full lie flat, but it's been awhile since I've flown on JAL, so I can't recall all of the details. It will definitely be an improvement over the ~9ish years I had to take economy at my former job! I was able to book business only if it fit within a certain budget, so it was much more rare. I often upgraded myself, using points or personal cash.

Enough procrastinating - time to get this show on the road.

Hope everyone has a great week ahead! 

Friday, July 10, 2026

Frugal Friday

I have no idea why I didn't put the pieces together earlier, but I went on a new injection lupus medicine last week, and it's known to cause exhaustion, headaches, etc for the first 2-3 weeks. That explains why I've felt so exhausted this week. Fingers crossed things level out. 

On to our frugal Friday recap. DH & I took Nick & 9 of his friends to Lake Tahoe for the 4th of July, so some wins related to that. 

Saving on things we buy

  • I originally used United credits for our trip to the Oregon coast in a few weeks. Because Nick can't come until Friday after work, Alaska had a better schedule than United. I cancelled one way for the United trip (kept the return) & sorted his outbound flight with miles (details below). That meant I received a United credit back. Nick is not driving his car to Colorado, so he & I are flying to Denver/Boulder, renting a car, moving him in & then I'll fly home alone. For the outbound flights, we both had United credits that I used to offset the flights, saving $331. 
Earning money

  • Both boys are back at work, with Nick filling in for a water sport camp (he normally leads a mountain biking group), & Sam back at the restaurant & donut shop. 

Avoiding spending

  • Nick can't join for the Oregon coast portion of our family trip (work), but is joining for the weekend gathering at my parents house. I used his Alaska Air miles to book a one way flight to Seattle. He's meeting up with friends on Friday night, and then they are driving him to my parents house (north of Portland). Crazily, the business class seats were less miles than economy, so he will be flying business class & I'm sure will feel quite spoiled. ;-) 
  • For our Lake Tahoe trip, we optimized a bit, as we had quite a few teens joining us. Ended up with three free rooms, which saved a huge amount, given 4th of July weekend is peak season in Lake Tahoe. (We used hotel comps. I will do a post about where the comps come from at some point, & how we track & manage them). 
  • I also used a $10 coffee offer from the hotel app, and M used a $100 yearly dining offer from his rewards app for our Friday dinner. 

Eating what we have

  • Continue to make Nick lunch to take for work. I don't do it every day, but try to help out when I can, as it also has the extra benefit of me getting items I'm looking to use out of the fridge. 
  • I made myself lunch out of yogurt, granola & berries, plus cheese & crackers. It used up what we had & sounded good & light, so it worked. 
  • We've been eating fridge & freezer leftovers. I've used up the last of a Costco package of tortillas, which was enormous. 

For others

  • Did some additional work to manage the finances for my special needs aunt. 
What about you? Any wins to share? 

Wednesday, July 8, 2026

So tired

 Not sure if this is my body just catching up from jet lag, or starting to catch a bug, but I am definitely struggling with my energy this week. Just in time for an international work trip :-(. Fingers crossed I have more energy tomorrow.

Otherwise, I'm plodding along on work goals, getting ready for my trip, and of course trying to fill in with some home goals as well. We have about five weeks until I take Nick back to Boulder, so I also need to start a list of what we need to bring, buy there, etc, as he's in a furnished apartment vs a dorm this year. He's not much of a chef (although he did do a lot of our cooking during COVID!), but has some skills & could make himself food when needed. 

Hope everyone is doing well & having a great week!

Tuesday, July 7, 2026

July goals

 It's time for more goals! I'm late, but still tracking for July. Here's what's on the list for the month ahead. 

Financial:

  • Stay on top of food waste by using up 3 pantry or freezer items
  • Continue to track net new savings for 2026
  • Give notice at work & set an exit date
  • Make $100 in side hustle
  • Find one expense to optimize
  • Finalize post work budget & plan (health insurance through M's plan is the biggest to do)
Family:
  • Continue to help the boys navigate college & life
  • Finalize Nick's move back plans
  • Monthly date with M
  • Reschedule family dinner
  • Continue planning for our big trip next year, M's 60th
Fitness:
  • Lose 3 lbs
  • 10 strength workouts
  • Track nutrition
  • Average 13,000 steps/day

Personal:

  • Do well at Japan external event
  • Declutter 50 items
  • Get together with friends
  • Try something new
  • Say yes to adventures
  • Get to know our neighbors
  • Try a new recipe
What about you? Any goals for July? My big one is definitely giving notice!!!


Sunday, July 5, 2026

Menu Plan Sunday

 It's another wild week, and I leave for Tokyo on Saturday & then come back to jury duty! :-) 

  • Friday - dinner in Lake Tahoe
  • Saturday - 4th of July party in Lake Tahoe
  • Sunday - ground beef tacos
  • Monday - once again, one pan Mexican chicken and rice is on the menu, as it wasn't made last week
  • Tuesday - leftover tacos
  • Wednesday - leftover one pan Mexican chicken & rice
  • Thursday - any remaining leftovers
  • Friday - TBD
What about you? What's on your menu this week? 

Saturday, July 4, 2026

June Goals Recap

June was quite a month. I finished my Stanford class, had a week in LA for work (this undersells how much prep work went into this event), and 10ish days in Greece. As you can imagine, a lot fell by the wayside between all of that. 

Anyway, not recapping goals even on rough months isn't particularly helpful, so I'll stay the course & share how I did. 

Financial:

  • Stay on top of food waste by using up 3 pantry & freezer items. - Freezer is looking lean, and we've done a good job of using up: meatballs, lots of buns, leftover chicken, etc. 
  • Continue to track net new savings for 2026 - yes, and we are finally back in the green after taxes, thanks to my annual bonus. 
  • Make $100 in side hustle - nope, I made a paltry $20, thanks to a settlement + one eBay sale. I had my sales turned off for the majority of the month. 
  • Find one expense to optimize - nope, did nothing on this one
  • Create post work budget & plan (health insurance through M's plan is biggest to do) - I did track down the info, but haven't finished the budget. 
Family:
  • Continue to help the boys navigate college & life - this is an ongoing one, but it continues
  • Sort out Nick's move back plans - still on the fence about some logistics that Nick & M are working out. 
  • Monthly date with M - I think so? Pretty sure our date night landed in June? 
  • Host family for dinner - this didn't happen & needs to be rescheduled
  • Make progress on Iceland planning (next year, M's 60th) - eh, we are still in exploration mode & may swap to Italy. I love travel planning & the good news is that we are still in research mode on this stuff. 
  • Have a fabulous trip to Greece - yes, done! It was fabulous. 
Fitness:
  • Lose 3 lbs - I lost 1 lb, and came in at 149.5. 
  • 10 strength workouts - 6/10
  • Track nutrition - about 1/2 the days of the month, not when I was in Greece. My average (including Greece estimates) was 1,354/day.
  • Average 12,000 steps/day - Definitely not. I was at 9,298 for the month. Two full travel days (long flights, no steps) & then a work trip where I was trapped in a hotel for another week didn't help. Plus, minimal official workouts or hikes. 

Personal:

  • Do well at external event - went very well. 
  • Declutter 50 items from the house - made no effort on this, but managed 3 items out of the house by sheer luck. 
  • Get together with friends- girls trip + a hike with friends + one workout with a friend. 
  • Try something new - Greece!
  • Say yes to adventures - the ferry situation, lots of adventures, caldera hike, etc. 
  • Get to know our neighbors - no progress
  • Try a new recipe - tried a new recipe with rice & meatballs that was quick & easy. 

Let's hope for a better July! How did you do with your June goals? 

Friday, July 3, 2026

Frugal Friday

 This is a recap from a pre-Greece week + the past week. 

Saving on things we buy

  • Uploaded two Costco receipts to Fetch & iBotta, as the latter had a $.05 on any grocery receipt cash back. 

Earning money

  • I'd fully maxed out my 401k by my last paycheck, so it was bigger than normal, which was a nice treat. 
  • Both boys are continuing to work a lot, trying to earn some cash ahead of school going back. 
  • Received $250 deposit back from Nick's dorm room, which is a testament to how much time & effort I spent helping him + his roommate clean & pack back in May. 
  • Also received my annual bonus + a retroactive raise from April. 


Avoiding spending

  • Oh my, we spent plenty, that's for sure. Greece was not a cheap trip (see trip recap for details!)

Eating what we have

  • A few weeks ago I'd been home for just a day (LA work trip) & hadn't reconciled myself to grocery shopping yet, so we had a (mostly) freezer dinner. All of our dinners are served with salad, but the shrimp & fried rice were both from Trader Joes & stashed in the freezer.
  • Used up a small ziplock of strawberries, and the very end of frozen berries to make a smoothie for Nick. I added an incredibly ripe banana, some yogurt, protein powder & a splash of oat milk. He's been working outside in the 90 degree weather, mountain biking, so he appreciated the cool treat when he got home.
  • I also made Nick a quick dinner of grilled cheese sandwiches, made on leftover hamburger buns & sliced cheese I found lingering in the fridge. He was between a gym workout & a pickleball match, so he appreciated the quick & scrappy meal. 
  • Made the boys various breakfast items before work. 
  • Nick's friend is staying with us for a few days, and oh my goodness that guy can eat. He's 6'4" and a college athlete, and eats more than double my guys combined. I've spent a lot of time in the kitchen, making sure there are easy meals prepped for them, as they are out & about. We have no leftovers in the fridge this week, that is for sure! :-) 
  • Nick & friend weren't supposed to be home for dinner, but came back early from the beach, so I whipped up a large spaghetti & meatball dinner, using fridge & freezer staples. Added in a loaf of bread, and they were good to go.
  • I also prepped a large lunch for everyone (6 chicken patty sandwiches on ciabatta buns - both from the freezer), chips leftover from a previous teen party, a big bowl of fruit + veggies. All was eaten minus one chicken patty sandwich, which served as Nick's lunch the following day for his job. 
  • I went to make lunch on Wednesday, and noticed it was slim pickings for protein to go on my salad (see above with all of my hungry diners), so I opted for the freezer/pantry salad. Salad base + olives & garbanzo beans (pantry) + edamame (freezer). Delicious & easy. Edamame & garbanzo beans both have a good amount of protein. 

For others

  • Provided some career guidance to an acquaintance who was laid off, referred them to roles, and made some introductions that I hope will be helpful. 
What about you? Any wins to share? 

Thursday, July 2, 2026

Greece, a very non-frugal trip

I'm trying to create more trip recap reports, and it's important to me to show the splurge ones as much as the frugal ones. The frugal trips enable me to spend more flexibly on the splurge trips. We went to Santorini, Naxos & Paros.

Some things to note:

  • The trip was a shared 50th birthday celebration for myself + my BFF, with my sister
  • I paid for my sister's travel expenses, so my cost is for two people
  • We originally had a fantastic deal on flights, using British Airways miles, but they changed the flights & they no longer worked for our group, which was frustrating. We then had to buy revised flights & they cost quite a bit more than they did when we originally priced them. The original flight cost was around $1800 total, so seeing the end number really hurt. 
  • This trip had A LOT of logistics. M & I have agreed that Greece, while incredible, is challenging to get to from our location & we don't love a trip where we have to move around a lot. Hence how this made it to the girls trip list. 
  • My BFF had a very limited set of dates available, so we had minimal flex on timing to save on cost. She's a school principal & can't adjust vacation days. We ended up needing to adjust our flights & shave a day off the last stop (Paros), as my sister found out that her SIL was getting married the day after we returned. 
  • If you've ever traveled with 3-4 people in Europe (and, many places in Asia), you know that finding a room that can comfortably fit that many people is a challenge. There is either an option for a suite, or two rooms, and this is expensive regardless. 
  • We were shocked by how expensive transit was, and should have done more research. We booked a hotel on the quieter part of Santorini, and they offered a shuttle service, but it didn't run during the majority of the day. Uber was more expensive than the hotel transit (they arrange for a driver to come & get you). We would still not decide to rental a car, as none of us would have been remotely comfortable driving, but the transit was the biggest area I hadn't budgeted enough for. 
Hotels - $1094.73 (remaining costs covered through Chase rewards)
  • We split this up by having me book & pay for two of the hotels (Santorini & Paros), & my BFF paid for the other hotel. 
  • $637.09 - food & transit booked with Santorini hotel. I didn't bring home a receipt to break out the transactions that were a few meals eaten at the hotel vs lots of transit around the island.
  • $457.64 - food & transit booked with Paros hotel. Same as above, I didn't bring home a receipt to break out the transactions that were a few meals eaten at the hotel vs lots of transit around the island.
Transit - $270.96
  • We had two ferry rides, to get between the islands. For two, the ferry costs were $260.72
  • We also rode the ferry from Paros to Antiparos, which was a whopping $10.24 (three round trip tickets)
  • See above, as the majority of this is captured under Lodging
Food - $190.75
  • While we mostly ate at lounges for our airport transit days, I bought drinks for the flight from Munich to SFO (from a vending machines) to carry on the flight ($6.27) & coffee for all of us at the Frankfurt airport, ahead of our flight to Athens ($23.78)
  • Dinner in Naxos- $134.44
  • Gelato in Paros, x2 - $14.3+11.96
  • The majority of the rest of my food was covered by my sister when we ate out, and we had few meals at the hotels (covered under Lodging, as I didn't get the receipt to split out transit costs & food). 
Activities - $243.60
  • We booked a cooking class - cost for two was $243.60 
  • We also did a distillery/winery tour at a Citron family owned business, which was super interesting. My sister paid for my ticket. 

Flights - $10,613.44
  • I flew my sister to/from Portland, so we could be on the same flights from SFO & reduce logistics. I normally do a really good job optimizing, but we had fixed timing & airport/airline requirements that complicated things. This flight was insanely priced at $665.23. 
  • We also paid for flights to/from Athens to islands, & my cost was for two of those tickets. - $623.55
  • Moving on to the big ticket items - two round trip flights from SFO to Athens. The flight class varied a bit - we were in Premium Plus from SFO to Frankfurt, regular economy (I think?) from Frankfurt to Athens, business from Athens to Munich and business from Munich to SFO.  - $9324.66
Travel insurance - $96
  • At my previous employer, health insurance was international, which means I didn't need to buy a policy when I traveled. My current company policy only provides coverage for international work travel. I did not need travel coverage for delayed flights & the like, as that's covered by my travel credit card. I used Allianz insurance - $96
Other - $630.97
  • Gifts from M + the boys, two pair of hand made sandals, some stunning pottery from a local vendor in Paros & a necklace for my mom 



Total spent = $12,917.65 for two people (or $6,458 & change per person). All in all, no regrets on the spending except for the flights, which as noted above, was originally supposed to be largely covered by British Airways miles. Hopefully we will get a chance to use them soon. 

Wednesday, July 1, 2026

Naxos to Paros and home again

I  left off with our last day in Naxos, so I'll pick up with our ferry adventure from Naxos to Paros.

Wednesday 6/24 - Naxos -> Paros

  • Grabbed breakfast & coffee near the hotel
  • Made our way to the ferry port in Naxos Town
  • Because we knew what to expect, this ferry adventure was a bit easier. Both ferries we took were delayed, but I got the sense that's kind of the norm. We met a couple in line behind us from Oregon, and gave them a lot of tips on how to navigate the ferry process. The ferry we boarded was quite large (1,300 people), but the number of folks boarding in Naxos was much smaller than Santorini. There was still a ton of chaos with the boarding process, and baggage, so that was an adventure. We had great seats, however, that put us right near the exit ramp & made grabbing our bags during the chaos much easier. Oh, and no one checks your ferry tickets until the boat is well underway. On our ferry from Santorini to Naxos, we stopped at Ios, well known for a younger party crowd, & picked up a few hundred folks. Maybe 15 minutes after we were underway, they were going around scanning tickets, and a large group of folks from the island were on the wrong ferry. No idea what happened from there, as they gathered them all together & went to find a supervisor. This is one of the challenges when you have a chaotic boarding process, and don't scan tickets upon entry. Just no way to know. ;-) 
  • We got picked up at the Paros terminal by our hotel & made our way to our final destination. And, it was so incredible. We were originally supposed to have one more night at this hotel, but needed to shave one night off so my sister could attend a wedding for her partner's sister back in Portland. I'm so bummed it was a night in Paros that got removed, because this was my favorite island by far & we had an amazing time, but didn't get to see everything. 
  • Our room wasn't quite ready when we arrived, so we sat by the pool & enjoyed our welcome cocktail, and shared a lunch. The weather on Paros & Naxos was much warmer than Santorini (just down to a weird mix of weather patterns, I don't think that's typical), so we were able to get in the pool & enjoy that as well. 

  • Checked in, enjoyed a snack from the hotel & got ready for dinner.
  • We went to Naoussa, which is a town that is exactly how I envisioned Greece would be. Gorgeous cobblestone streets, cats everywhere, and amazing views everywhere you look. We had our best meal of the trip that night at Mare Nostrum, where we had a sesame/honey/feta dish that I will attempt to find again, a shrimp pasta dish & of course, Greek salad. We took lots of photos & did a bit of shopping, wrapping up the evening with gelato before we got the shuttle back to the hotel.

Thursday 6/25 - Paros

  • Got up & had breakfast & coffee at the hotel. Breakfast was good, but couldn't beat the breakfast options at the Santorini hotel. Quite a step up from the Naxos hotel, however.
  • Took the ferry to the very nearby island of Antiparos. This ferry ride was one of my favorite parts. It costs about 1.50 Euros each person, per trip & you just walk on. It's a gorgeous 10 minute ferry ride to Antiparos, which was my favorite part of the trip. (Views from the ferry, below).
  • Antiparos was gorgeous, tiny, and we spent some time talking to a local pottery shop owner. He & his wife have been making pottery for 40 years and have incredible pieces. I'm not one for a lot of souvenirs, but these were so lovely and worth bringing home, so we could remember a bit of Greece. We had lunch at a lovely restaurant & finished off the trip with a gelato, running to catch a ferry that was about to take off.
  • We came back & hung out by the pool, where I finished the last of my books (that includes all of my Kindle library books, 2 paper books I picked up from the hotel's "free" counter, and a book from my friend). I ended up buying a very expensive book at the Munich airport, to see me through the rest of my trip. My Kindle is extremely finicky to connect with wifi outside of my house, so getting new library books wasn't an option. I tried, and failed, repeatedly. Met a really nice woman at the pool & gave her some tips on Santorini, where she was headed next.
  • Had dinner in Parikia, and celebrated our last night on the island. 
  • Packed up & had an early night, as we had to be up at 5 for our flight. 


Friday 6/26 - Paros -> SFO
  • Got up at 5 to finish packing & get ready for our 5:45 car service to the airport. Checked out of the hotel.
  • Got to the very small & jam packed airport (one gate, one terminal) for our 7:00 am flight, which was delayed. Flight itself was uneventful & short.
  • Got to Athens, picked up our bags & dropped them off at the respective luggage counters. We then had to say goodbye to my friend, as her flight left from a different terminal, and coming with us would require her to deal with security/etc twice.
  • Hung out at the lounge in Athens, as we budgeted quite a bit of time for security and the like. Flight from Athens to Munich was around 3 hours, and went smoothly. We were fed a nice lunch.
  • Got to Munich, bought a book, cleared a very long immigration line. We were eventually pulled out to use the automatic machines, which got things moving quickly. Went through another security check at our gate.
  • Flight from Munich to SFO was 11 hours, and we were in Lufthansa business class, which was really nice. I'd heard it wasn't comparable to United or British Airways, so I had low expectations, but it was actually really great. Service, food, space, etc. My sister had never flown business, and was completely thrilled with the space. Dozed, read my book, watched two movies, ate some dinner.
  • Landed on time at 7 pm in SFO, breezed through immigration with Global Entry, but then waited an hour for my bag. Sad goodbye to my sister, as she was carrying on to Portland. M picked me up, I came home & immediately fell asleep!
Friday was a super long travel day, but the trip was so much fun. Lots of adventure, lots of memory making, lots of chats you don't get if you don't see your friends often. Gorgeous scenery, incredible meals, and met some really lovely people. Travel logistics aside, you can't ask for much more than that!

Tuesday, June 30, 2026

Santorini to Naxos trip details

When I left off, we had just finished our last full day in Santorini. Caveat, entire trip was filled with laughs, experiences & memory making, so absolutely worth doing, but I'll share the highlights & the lowlights. 

Sunday 6/21 - Santorini to Naxos

  • Got up in the morning & had breakfast at the hotel & packed up
  • Headed to the port for the ferry, which was ... an adventure I won't soon forget
  • The thing about the ferry is it's so much chaos without any organization, and 1200 people attempting to board a ferry while workers are shouting in Greek. That would maybe be okay if everyone was going to the same island, but the ferries from Santorini go to numerous islands, and you need to leave your luggage in the designated area for your destination, Cue an absolute insane amount of chaos, dragging your bags up an enormous ferry ramp, trying to sort luggage, sirens going off, whistles being blown & just... a lot. ;-) I would not repeat the ferry experience unless absolutely mandatory. (This is specific to Santorini. We also took the ferry from Naxos to Paros, and combined with the fact that we knew what to expect and the much fewer number of people boarding, it was easier to navigate, although still...chaotic, shall we say.) 
  • We got picked up in Naxos Town by the hotel transport, and made our way to the hotel. The hotels in Santorini & on Paros were really fabulous, but this one was ... more of a let down. The room was tiny, despite being a "suite". We had the sofa made into a bed, which meant there was no room to sit, no place for three bags, etc. The other disappointment was the hotel pool area. In the photos online, they showed a pretty spacious pool area, as well as what they described as a pool terrace. There were a total of six chairs for the entire hotel, and they were all in full sun for the day, and I'm not sure what happened with the pool terrace, but no such thing. We heard later that the pool photos were taken with a drone & then selectively edited... I also wouldn't stay in the location we were in, and would stay in Naxos Town if I ever came back. We were in Prokopios, which had a lot of touristy type restaurants, and it was harder to find places to eat, etc. 
  • We had an okay dinner on our first night, as the place we wanted to go to was sold out, and we wandered around looking for other options. That said, the view was gorgeous on the beach. Just a stunning location. 


Monday 6/22 - Naxos
  • Tried the hotel breakfast, which was not an experience we would repeat. 
  • Rented lounge chairs at the beach, read two books & ordered cocktails & fries. Lunch of champions. ;-) Absolutely gorgeous views & some fun people watching. We hit maximum relaxation by this point. 
  • Went to dinner in Naxos Town & did some shopping, & had a lovely dinner at Avaton 1739, which is located on the Old Monastery and School of the Ursulines (a historic complex built directly into the stone fortification walls of the medieval Venetian Castle, according to Google). The view was again super fabulous. 


Tuesday 6/23 - Naxos
  • Went out to breakfast/coffee & skipped the hotel breakfast ;-)
  • Had no plans, as we were supposed to be on a kayak tour, but wind meant that wasn't an option for us. We weren't quite sure what to do, so after checking with the hotel staff, we ended up on a distillery tour. I'll admit that I had zero expectations for this, but it turned out to be so much fun. The distillery makes Citron, and that type of alcohol is only made in Naxos, by two family owned distilleries. The host made the experience - she was so much fun, we drank wine, lots of Citron, ouzo, and limoncello. 
  • Went to a great dinner in Naxos Town at Scirocco, and enjoyed shrimp orzo & then went shopping a bit down town. I do really like that the shopping area is open so late. 
I'll be back with the details of our trip from Naxos -> Paros, and our time in Paros + travel home. Naxos is described as a favorite island by many, so if I go back & try it again, I would make a bunch of adjustments to where we stayed & our planned activities, as I don't think we did it justice & would like to go back & experience it again. 

Monday, June 29, 2026

Not the usual Fitness Monday post

Because, other than my workout class yesterday, fitness has been pretty limited to walking during my vacation. On Saturday, I mostly just slept & lounged around on the couch, trying to convince myself to be productive. ;-) 

I'll try & do a trip recap instead (and, I've got a trip cost post coming, with more details on that). 

My sister + BFF flew in on Monday, so we could all depart SFO together on Tuesday. 

Tuesday 6/16- travel day

  • We worked during the day on Tuesday morning, went for a quick walk at lunch, and then cleaned up & headed to the airport. 
  • I redeemed my two free United lounge passes for myself + my sister at the SFO United lounge. I've been to the domestic terminal lounges (nice), as well as the Polaris international lounge (amazing), but never to the international lounge/non-Polaris. It was pretty disappointing, and I wish I hadn't redeemed my pass vouchers, but c'est la vie. We had a glass of champagne & chatted while we waited for our flight.
  • Our flights left SFO around 7 pm. We were all together in Premium Plus. I managed to sleep for 4ish hours, which isn't too bad for me. 
Wednesday 6/17 - travel day
  • Time zones make this challenging to recap, but after an 11 hour flight to Frankfurt, we got off the flight, cleared customs (the line was crazy, and a bunch of people missed connections). 
  • I grabbed coffee for everyone, while we took turns using the bathroom & stretching our legs a bit.
  • We had about 20 minutes before boarding, so even planning on a 2 hour gap between flights was pretty tight. 
  • We boarded our next flight, from Frankfurt to Athens, which was just under 3 hours. We ordered a glass of wine & a snack & all then took a short nap. 
  • We arrived in Athens & that was... an experience. We were flying a small airline (Aegean Air) from Athens to Santorini. The airport was very quiet in the terminal we were in, the gate moved twice, we couldn't figure out how to get our bags checked (even a standard carry-on doesn't fit & needed to be checked). We hung out at the lounge and ate a bit.
  • We had to take busses to the plane, and that was an experience, as the bus is absolutely jammed full of people & then there was a near collision on the runway between our bus & another bus. A few people fell over, because the bus braked so hard and turned, but we all survived that.
  • Flight to Santorini was uneventful. We landed, claimed our bags (took only 5 minutes or so) & exited the airport & met our hotel driver. 
  • Drive to the hotel was quick & easy & we got checked in & made our way to the room, around 1:30 am local time. The hotel had champagne & snacks in the room for us. Sat out & chatted & went to sleep around 2:30 am. Hotel was absolutely gorgeous, and on the quiet side of Santorini, which we enjoyed. 
Thursday 6/18 - Santorini
  • Got up late, had breakfast, unpacked. 
  • Went to a winery & had a tasting & enjoyed a relaxing afternoon

  • Had a fabulous dinner (birthday celebration, planned by my sister) at The Athenian House in Imerovigli, which was absolutely stunning at sunset. We were surprised by how chilly & windy it was, which was the case for our entire Santorini trip. Ate delicious Greek food & shared a bottle of wine. (View from dinner)

Friday 6/19 - Santorini
  • Took advantage of the free hotel breakfast (delicious)
  • Headed to Megalochori for a cooking class, which we loved. The chef was so much fun, and it was just the three of us + a lovely couple from Australia. We made a traditional bean dish, Greek salad (of course), tomato fritters & tzatziki sauce. We enjoyed wine during the food preparation, and lots of laughs with our cooking mishaps. 
  • After the class, we wandered around Megalochori & enjoyed the really cute town & got some pictures. 
  • Headed back to the hotel & laid by the pool for a bit, and read
  • Ordered room service & ate on our patio, which was perfect. We had chicken gyros & wine. Of course. ;-) 

Saturday, 6/20 - Santorini
  • Hotel breakfast
  • We hiked the caldera from Fira to Oia, and the views were stunning. We went pretty early in the day, before it got too warm. 
  • While the hike was amazing, Oia was jammed with tourists from the big cruise ships in town. Locals told us that three ships were in port, which explains the crowds. 
  • We then had dinner in Fira, which was again super crowded & food was okay, but definitely felt like more of a tourist location/restaurant. Sunset at the restaurant, however, was gorgeous, with caldera views.






I'll be back with additional details on our next two stops (Naxo & Paros). My verdict of Santorini? Absolutely gorgeous, but a one & done for me, due to the crowds & overall more of a touristy vibe. That said, worth visiting once if you want the more traditional white building/blue dome architecture & Instagram style views. 

Sunday, June 28, 2026

Menu Plan Sunday

 I'm going to keep things really easy this week, but make sure everyone gets fed.

  • Friday - ate some pasta on the flight home from Munich
  • Saturday - rotisserie chicken + grain salad from Costco (prepared section, delicious)
  • Sunday - grilled burgers
  • Monday - one pan chicken & rice dish (chicken from rotisserie purchase above) 
  • Tuesday - leftover grain salad & chciken
  • Wednesday - leftover burgers
  • Thursday -  leftover one pan chicken & rice dish
  • Friday - something in Lake Tahoe, I think we'll be eating out
What about you? What's on your menu this week? 

Saturday, June 27, 2026

Back from Greece

 Trip was amazing, but travel logistics were exhausting! We had three flights yesterday (four for my sister) & it was a 24 hour travel day for two of us, and closer to 30 hours for my sister, as her final leg was delayed. Poor thing.

I will definitely prioritize places that are closer next time, but absolutely loved, loved Paros & would take M there if it gets any easier to get there. I've heard they are expanding their airport a bit.





Sunday, June 14, 2026

Minimal Menu Plan Sunday

 Phew, the crazy week is wrapping up & I leave for vacation on Tuesday! It has been absolutely wild around here, but things are very slowly settling down. It was not my best cooking week, for reasons like being out of town, but we made things work. 

  • Friday - I made the Argentinan shrimp (Trader Joes), which I would definitely recommend as a staple, as they are excellent & defrost really quickly. Had this with (TJs) veggie fried rice.
  • Saturday- M grilled burgers for some friends Nick had over, and we had burgers, fries, potato salad, and a watermelon that was yellow? 
  • Sunday - I'm making a chicken/rice one pan dish tonight. 
  • Monday - birthday dinner out, with guests!
  • Tuesday - eating at the airport lounge, most likely
  • Wednesday - Friday - Greece!
What about you? What's on your menu this week? Hopefully you will have more inspiration than I do this week. 

Friday, June 12, 2026

Frugal Friday

It was a pretty quiet week, because I was traveling for work Sunday-Thursday. The only "frugality" is that work is paying for my expenses while I was there. I'd definitely prefer to be home!

Saving on things we buy

  • Uploaded a grocery receipt to Fetch & took advantage of a whopping $.05 iBotta offer. 

Earning money

  • Received a small annual raise, which is back dated to April & found out about my annual bonus. 

Avoiding spending

  • Ate lunch on Sunday at the lounge. It was nothing to write home about, but I ate the filling out of the two tiny tacos & then a small side salad with a dash of chips on top. Luckily, I had a bunch of fruit in the morning. 

Eating what we have

  • Not me, but M has been packing lunches for Nick & they ate a staggering amount of leftovers while I was gone.
  • Got home yesterday & baked up two frozen pizzas for dinner  + leftovers for Nick's lunch

For others

  • Sent a bunch of thank you notes to awesome folks I work with, including their managers. Just in time for the annual review season. 


That's it from my side. It hasn't been the most frugal week for sure. What about you? Any wins to share? 

Monday, June 8, 2026

Fitness Monday

It was not a good step week, as you can see from the results. A combination of opting for a strength class on a day when I could actually go to class (the only one that worked for my schedule), an in office day, a doctor's appointment & a hair cut (my first one in 10 months! It was more than overdue). That said, I did manage three strength workouts this week, which is my goal & a nice improvement. 

Weight: 149.5 - very pleased to see that I'm in the 140s again, as that's a nice mental milestone for me. Down 1.1 lbs from last week. I've been trying to add in more strength training, to ensure that I'm not losing muscle, which is a concern when you are steadily losing pounds. 

Calories: 1,359 calories/day

Steps: 9,879/ day average

Workouts:

  • 2 45 minute elliptical workouts
  • A full strength training class
  • 2 classes that are 1/2 strength training & 1/2 cardio

Goals for the week:

  • Stay on track with my fitness & calories, despite being at a work event

What about you? How did you do with your health & fitness goals this week?

Sunday, June 7, 2026

No menu plan Sunday

Because I leave for a work trip today. However, M grilled a huge batch of chicken & made rice last night, so he & the boys have plenty to eat. Everyone likes easy protein options. Nick starts the camp counselor portion of his job tomorrow, so he will be out on long bike rides, hikes & climbing trips. 

I managed to squeeze in a morning workout class, and now I'm about to do the final phase of packing (the last minute stuff you can't do until right before you leave) & then head to the airport. 

I have an evening event tonight, partner meetings all day tomorrow, presenting on Tuesday & Wednesday, & I'm spending all day Thursday doing team stuff with my boss. I'm also supposed to somehow find time to deliver all of my performance reviews to my team members, and work on a business case for a project. I fly home late on Thursday. Doesn't that sound like a fun time? ;-) 

I will be so incredibly grateful when this week is done. It also leaves me Friday, Monday & 1/2 of Tuesday to wrap up work before I head out on vacation. M's birthday is next week, we are hosting family for dinner on Saturday, I need to pack for Greece & get a pedicure, and my friends are flying in on Monday. It's going to be busy, busy, busy!

Hope you all have a wonderful Sunday!

Saturday, June 6, 2026

It's not always about frugality, and Saturday happenings

I tend to focus more on frugal wins on the blog, for obvious reasons, but not all of the choices we make have frugality top of mind. 

I have an absolutely crazy few weeks, with a work trip to LA, a birthday dinner for M that we are hosting, out of town guests, more work, the last week of my Stanford class & my capstone project, finishing all of my performance reviews, & then a trip to Greece. As such, getting the house properly cleaned to host & entertain is lower on my priority list, so I am having our house deep cleaned next Monday when I'm back from LA. What a relief to give that task to someone else, so I can focus on all of the other many things grabbing my attention. I did promise myself that I could pay to have the house cleaned regularly when I went back to work. I did that for several months, and then when I decided I was only staying for a year, I opted to cancel the service & just clean on my own. 

Anyway, that's my very non-frugal splurge for the month, and I'm looking forward to it.

Other happenings today:

  • I'm going to a combo strength/cardio class this morning, which will be nice to put me closer towards my goal of 3x/week for strength training
  • Finish packing for work trip
  • Get all of the Father's Day cards for my dad (myself & the boys) finished & mailed
  • Get M's cards all prepped (Father's Day & birthday)
  • Start organizing Greece items & determine if I need to buy any travel toiletries
  • Make a Costco list (for everyone else) for the week
  • I may also try to get in a walk, as I'm way behind on my step goals for the week
  • Clean the fridge
  • Laundry
What about you all? What's your most recent splurge, and what's on the agenda for today?

Friday, June 5, 2026

Frugal Friday

 Another busy week, which included M's mini birthday getaway, an office day & a ton of prep for a big work event next week. I'll be happy when next week is done. 

Saving on things we buy

  • We had a fantastic time at M's mini birthday getaway, and saved a lot by using Hyatt points, and combining with my hotel status (earned through credit card spend), which was really lovely. 
  • Used my monthly CVS reward + a $3 off a $10 purchase + a Hallmark coupon to save a bit on a purchase of: cards, travel sunblock, & a toothbrush. 

Earning money

  • Sold a set of workout shirts that are too big for M, and made $15.
  • Nick collected the money from the soccer tournament he worked at ($160 for all day, so not bad at all) & started training for his summer job. Sam continues to work quite a few hours at his restaurant job & was approached while at work for someone looking for daytime help at a bakery. They said his customer service skills were great, so he's looking into whether he can make that work. 
  • I sold a new in package electronic item on eBay (from the woman I know who is cleaning her parents house & just wants everything gone). Made $12 and kept it out of the landfill. 

Avoiding spending

  • Last year I successfully took advantage of a 100% cash back offer of a meditation app, through my credit card. I did the same this year, but was never credited the cash. I called once a few days after it was expected to clear, told to be patient. Called 8 weeks later, they were investigating. Called today & got it resolved. They ended up refunding me, but I didn't get the app, as the offer terms didn't work in my particular case. I'm sad not to have the app, but meditate rarely, so not worth $80 out of pocket. 
  • Charged my car for free at work, and skipped buying breakfast & lunch by taking advantage of the snack/free options they provide. Breakfast was a yogurt with a sprinkle of granola & a banana. Lunch with string cheese, nuts & apple & a few chocolate covered almonds. 

Eating what we have

  • We hosted a big pool party on Sunday for Nick's friends, so we had a lot of leftovers & have been eating through all of that. 
  • A neighbor asked if we could use bananas and peaches, as they were going out of town. The peaches were fabulous! 
  • Nick has been packing lunches for his summer camp job. He has really changed his eating to be healthy (awesome), and is packing lots of fruit, veggies & protein. 
  • I made an easy dinner from Trader Joes ingredients (we've been watching some YouTube videos on this topic that are quite fun). It was a spicy rice bowl using: veggie fried rice, pineapple meatballs, soyaki sauce & a cabbage slaw. It was delicious & of course super easy to pull together, which this week required. I don't know that I would call it super frugal, but it was definitely cheaper than takeout, and provided 3 lunches from leftovers. 

For others:

  • Did a couple of mock interviews for college students looking for internships or full time jobs. Getting practice at this is hard, and interviewing is a real skill. I've done hundreds of interviews in my time, so happy to share my knowledge. 
That's it for me. Any wins to share on your side? 

Thursday, June 4, 2026

May Goals Recap

 May was a bit of a lull before the chaos of June & July, which was nice. Here's how things went with my goals.

Financial:

  • Stay on top of food waste by using up 3 pantry or freezer items. This month, all from the freezer:
    • Chicken noodle soup 
    • Hamburger buns
    • Last of a bag of chicken patties
    • Cauliflower rice/rotisserie chicken leftover dish
    • Last of a bag of pizza rolls
  • Continue to track net new savings for 2026 - yes, and I've now maxed my 401k for the year, so my last few checks should be bigger than before
  • Make $100 in side hustle - $243 in May
  • Find one expense to optimize - nothing this month
  • Finalize work exit plan - yes, and locked in on an exit date
Family:
  • Continue to help the boys navigate college & life - helped Nick prep for, interview & successfully get a summer job. Also helped him move out. Sam is continuing with working towards a conservation program, as well as working. 
  • Monthly date with M - a dinner out, several hikes & an overnight early birthday celebration
  • Visit another national park - we pivoted to a local state park in Carmel
  • Continue working on "next big trip" plans with M - we have just started to sketch out details for Iceland!

Fitness:

  • Lose 3 lbs - lost 3.7 lbs
  • 10 days of meditation, strength & No S - crushed the No S, only 6 strength workouts & no meditations
  • Build out a workout template - will get to this when I'm done working
  • Track nutrition - yes
  • Average 12,000 steps/day - 11,831 - so close!

Personal:

  • Declutter 50 items from the house - 12/50
  • Get together with friends - a couple of hikes this month
  • Try something new - I'm taking an AI for leaders class + went to a spin class at our overnight getaway
  • Say yes to adventures - working on 2027 plans & lots of adventures
  • Get to know our neighbors - we've been trying to plan something, but dates haven't lined up yet
  • Try a new recipe - yes, I tried a new recipe with a variety of Trader Joes items, which turned out really well & will be a nice staple. While not super cheap, it's much less expensive than takeout. 

What about you? How did you do with your goals this month?


Wednesday, June 3, 2026

One night getaway to Carmel for M's birthday - budget round up

 I like to track our expenses for various trips, be they the expensive (and longer kind), or the quick & less expensive. The Greece summary will be quite the splurge, but as with everything, tracking helps you know what you spent & ensure your spending matches your priorities. 

M's birthday is coming up, but is sandwiched between a work trip (me) & my friends trip to Greece. I still wanted to celebrate him, but he wanted to keep it local. We decided on a very fancy hotel about 90 minutes away in Carmel. 

Hotel cost:

  • Free, with Hyatt points earned through our Hyatt credit card. This is a pricey hotel ($1237 without taxes, activity fees, etc), but we paid $0. Even the activity fees are waived when paying with points. We were also upgraded to a larger suite with an outdoor bath tub that was fabulous.  

Transportation:

  • We wanted to get to Point Lobos for hiking by 8, which the internet said would give us a good shot at parking inside the park. Unfortunately, we left about 15 minutes late, which meant parking along the road. On the plus side, that meant no parking fee inside Point Lobos, saving $10.
  • We drove our electric car & charged at the hotel. Honestly, the charging fee was pretty outlandish, at $21.90. We should have paid more attention, as M can definitely charge for less at his work. Anyway, lesson learned & still cheaper than gas. - $21.90

Activities:

  • We hiked at Point Lobos in Carmel ahead of checking in at the hotel, and the views were incredible. Neither of us had ever been there before, and really enjoyed it. (Photo below.) Cost =  $0
  • We also took advantage of a free spin class offered through the hotel on Sunday morning. Always nice to try a new free workout. Cost = $0

Food:

  • Because I'm a Hyatt Globalist, we get all food charges before 11 am for free. This included a latte for me + an Americano & GF muffin for M. We also had a fantastic breakfast buffet after our spin class.
  • Our room came with two free drinks, which we enjoyed by the pool during lunch. (Free drinks also thanks to Hyatt status.) There was a big snafu of the pool service, because the hotel was clearly overrun by an impromptu pool party happening after a wedding. They comped us two more drinks, which we told them was unnecessary, because they were working extremely hard to serve everyone. They insisted. We did have a hummus plate, which was $29.75. 
  • Lunch by the pool - $123.31
  • Dinner in Carmel - $197.70. I thought this place was just pretty good, but I wouldn't go back for the price. 

Total cost for the mini birthday trip = $372.26


Do you have any local(ish) trips you are considering? 



Tuesday, June 2, 2026

June goals

 June is going to be a very busy month! I have a work trip to LA, and I have the girls Greece trip! Definitely looking forward to one, and a lot less so the other. 

Here are my goals for the month.

Financial:

  • Stay on top of food waste by using up 3 pantry & freezer items
  • Continue to track net new savings for 2026
  • Make $100 in side hustle
  • Find one expense to optimize
  • Create post-work budget & plan (mostly track down increased insurance costs through M's plan)

Family:

  • Continue to help the boys navigate college & life
  • Sort out Nick's move back plans
  • Monthly date with M
  • Host family for dinner
  • Make progress on Iceland planning (next year, M's 60th) 
  • Have a fabulous trip to Greece!
Fitness:
  • Lose 3 lbs
  • 10 strength workouts
  • Track nutrition
  • Average 12,000 steps/day

Personal:

  • Do well at external event presentations
  • Declutter 50 items from the house
  • Get together with friends
  • Try something new
  • Say yes to adventures
  • Get to know our neighbors
  • Try a new recipe
What about you? What are you hoping to accomplish in June?

Monday, June 1, 2026

Fitness Monday

It's been really busy at work, and I had a commute day + had to be home two days during my normal workout for a pest control appointment.  Good times!

Weight: 150.6, down .7 lbs from last week

Calories: 1,274/day

Steps: 11,857/day

Workouts:

  • One cardio/strength class
  • One 60 minute elliptical workouts
  • Two 30 minute elliptical workouts
  • One  6.5 mile hike
  • One spin class 

Goals for the week:

  • Another really busy week, but I would really like to get in 3-4 strength training workouts, since I only managed one last week
  • Go to the doctor (this is happening, but noting it, as a positive step for my health, even though it's no fun
  • Increase steps/day
  • Increase protein 

That's it from my side. What about you? How are you doing with your health & fitness goals? 

Sunday, May 31, 2026

Menu Plan Sunday

 It's always tricky when we are gone for some or all of the week, as we heavily rely on Saturday/Sunday cooking for leftovers. But, having a plan helps tremendously!

  • Friday - leftover tacos
  • Saturday - out to dinner at the hotel we stayed at
  • Sunday - grilled chicken (freezer)
  • Monday - spaghetti & meatballs (freezer)
  • Tuesday - leftover grilled chicken
  • Wednesday - leftover spaghetti & meatballs
  • Thursday - salmon
  • Friday - TBD, based on any leftovers
What about you? What's on your menu for the week? 

Friday, May 29, 2026

Frugal Friday

 Another busy week, and I forgot that I needed to go to the office yesterday for a new hire lunch. Oh well, it was nice to welcome him to our team. 

Saving on things we buy

  • Uploaded receipts to Fetch & bought two protein bars that generated a $1 iBotta cash back offer. 
  • I used a $150 credit card cash back offer for a date night (there are a handful of restaurants that qualify near us), & we spent another $20 out of pocket, as it's a pretty fancy place. 
  • There is a therapeutic massage place very close to our house. As with most places, they are expensive for a 60 minute deep tissue massage. I happened to see that they had an offer on Groupon, so I clicked through to Groupon from Rakuten (6% cash back) & then purchased a Groupon good for weekdays, at 40% off standard price. It's good through September, so I might even buy another. I have chronic back problems & massages help quite a bit. 
  • I booked our flights to Utah & Las Vegas for our anniversary in September (it's a combo hiking/Las Vegas trip), and used a few minor flight credits & a small amount leftover on a gift card to offset the price. Ever so slightly, because flights are still insane! I will do a full cost roundup of the trip after it happens. 
  • Costco had $5 off a package of chicken breasts, so we grabbed an extra. 
  • As part of my attempts to extend travel credit, I needed a small Southwest gift card. I discovered that using Door Dash gave me 10% off of a digital gift card, so I went that route & saved a whopping $2.50 off of my $25 gift card. 
  • Similar to the above, invested $11 additional dollars on a United ticket for Sam in an attempt to extend a $127 travel credit he has that's expiring before he uses it. I have around a 90% success rate in getting United credits extended, but it's not guaranteed, hence why you want to keep any additional outlay of money involved to as small as possible. 

Earning money

  • Nick worked at a soccer tournament for his old club, and made some money. He started training for his summer job as well. 

Avoiding spending

  • M picked up our Costco groceries for the week & our annual Costco reward covered the full price & we got six entire dollars back. ;) I must admit that I was hoping for more, but I'll take the free groceries just the same. 
  • Charged my car for free for four hours at work. It's taken me almost a year to get the charging access sorted, combined with not having spots on days I come in, and finally approval through the system. Not sure what was the final magic that happened yesterday, but free charging! 

Eating what we have 

  • Reminded Nick to eat the last of the pizza rolls (leftover from some teen party before he went to college), so those are now out of the freezer.
  • Had a freezer dinner on Friday night (a cauliflower rice/black beans/rotisserie chicken dish) & topped that with leftover cilantro from the Piccadillo I made last week. 
  • Bought a delicious salad at Costco (celery grain) & paired that with a rotisserie chicken, which made 2 dinners for two diners, as well as three lunches, putting the cost at about $2.50/pp. 
  • Made the boys lunches several days in a row, in an attempt to use up the tortillas we have opened. 

For others

  • Helping out a friend with a leadership summit he's running.
What about you? Any wins to share? 

Wednesday, May 27, 2026

Wednesday Happenings

 This week is whizzing by, given the short work week. I'm enjoying it, for sure. I do need to drive to the office tomorrow, as I'm having lunch with a new hire on the team. I don't mind going in for that, because it's truly the type of thing you can only do in person. I'm giving myself the gift of not trying to be in the office for my 7 am calls, and just going in when I have a break in my schedule later in the morning. 

I've decided on a date to give notice, and it's feeling pretty real! I will offer an extended transition, as I really like my manager & am hiring someone mid-July and want to train them & provide support as they join the team.

Nick started his summer class, and was busy studying yesterday. He starts training for his summer job this weekend. He & Sam have been going to the climbing gym a lot. It inspired me to get M a summer membership at the climbing gym. He doesn't have gym access, and has been interested in a gym membership for a while. He's also expressed interest in trying climbing with the boys, so this will give him a good way to explore whether he likes it, for a reasonable deal. We can assess whether he wants to keep the membership after the summer. Nick has offered to teach him how to use the climbing wall and there are multiple introductory classes offered for free. While not always possible, I do try to give experiences vs things. His birthday gift (Father's Day & his birthday are a week apart) is a replacement for a shirt he loves but snags, so things do get purchased some times!

I worked on a packing list for Greece yesterday, which made me feel a bit more ready. It's so close! We leave in 20 days! I'm getting very excited. 

That's pretty much it on my side. I have plenty to do today - lots of meetings, working out, finishing a deck for a partner event, etc. Let's hope I make solid progress.

Hope you all have a fabulous day!