Friday, September 19, 2025

Frugal Friday

 Another wild week on the books, with a one night trip to San Diego, soooo many early meetings, and leaving for Boulder today. Then London on Sunday. I've got this. Last international work trip of the year!

Saving on things we buy

  • I met up with my original 9:30 am workout class group of women for dinner one night last week. I can no longer go to that class, but we try to meet up for the occasional coffee or weekend workout. One of the women is heading to the east coast for three months, so we got together to see her off. I once again had a credit card offer for the restaurant we went to. I forgot about it by the time we were there (saved several weeks earlier), but received a $5.72 cash back credit. 

Earning money

  • Regular W2 income, so nothing too exciting. 
Avoiding spending

  • Eh, not confident we've done really well at this, and in fact I ordered delivery the night I got home from San Diego. I did use a BOGO coupon, a free delivery offer & a $10 credit, but it still wasn't the same price as eating what we have at home. 

Eating what we have

  • For dinner last Friday, M & I weren't hungry for much, and instead hung out on the patio by the pool enjoying a bottle of wine & the last of the summer sunshine. It was a gorgeous evening. For dinner, I baked up a tray of prepped Costco samosas, which were easy & delicious, & served that with a salad. 
  • I seriously thought of picking up lunch on Monday, on my way back from my workout, as we didn't have any easy protein options to go with my salad. Instead, I came home & made a perfectly serviceable salad with almonds (protein), had a small amount of cheese & crackers & fresh berries. It was "free" (already paid for) & reduces the potential for food waste.
  • I made a broccoli beef dish to use up some extra broccoli about to go bad.
  • Similarly, I prepped the slow cooker on Monday am, putting everything in for chicken & dumplings, and just pressed "slow", which made it really easy to get dinner together. It also meant that i have both dinner leftovers, as well as lunch options available in the freezer. Two birds, one stone & all that. 
  • I did manage to turn the delivery into two dinners and two lunches, so I'll take it. 

For others

  • Can't think of anything this week.
What about you? Any wins to share? 

Monday, September 15, 2025

Fitness (or not) Monday

 It's been awhile since I've posted a fitness recap. That's a good sign that I've been: overwhelmed & stressed, and not focused on my fitness. The travel + jet lag have been a terrible combination. For me personally, getting enough sleep is the cornerstone to having enough energy to work out. Working out also gives me a lot of energy, so it's a really terrible spiral when I don't work out. I got a flu shot last week, which also led to me skipping yet another workout. 

Anyway, that's the quick catch up of why I'm behind on these posts. Last week was very "meh". Better than a few previous weeks, but way off the standard that I like, and how I was able to manage my schedule when I wasn't working. Go figure. ;-) 

Weight: I've gained 3 lbs in the last six weeks, and while I'm not 100% sure that's accurate (weight is often a bit higher on Mondays, thanks to more weekend splurges), I am not surprised to see that my weight is up a bit. It's disappointing, but definitely unsurprising, as I have not been working out at my regular rate, ate very different food that are not on my plan, and not nearly enough sleep. 

Calories: I'm estimating this at 1500/day, although honestly I didn't do a great job of tracking. I'm back on with my calorie tracking this week. 

Steps: in a similar story, my watch hasn't been charging well (can you tell that it's all of the things, this week?), so I'd say this is off by at least 10%, but I'd rather have some benchmark than none. My steps were 8,764/day, which is well off my rolling average & target of 12k/day. 

Workouts:

  • Two 60 minute workout classes
  • A 2 mile walk
  • A 7 mile hike
  • A 20 minute elliptical workout

On to this week! I have a one night trip to San Diego that's going to be a real challenge to squeeze a workout in/around, given my flight leaves at 6 am, and I have meetings all day + dinner with my boss. We shall see where I net out. I'm also heading to Boulder on Friday, and fly from Boulder/Denver to London on Sunday. 

My goals for the week:
  • Increase steps back to my standard
  • 6 workouts (2 runs + at least 2 workout classes)
  • Drop the calories down a bit

What about you? How are you doing with your health & fitness goals? 


Sunday, September 14, 2025

Menu Plan Sunday

 It's another busy week, so throwing together a menu plan always helps.

  • Friday - M & I weren't very hungry, so I baked up a tray of the Costco prepped samosas, and we had that with a salad. 
  • Saturday - Dinner at a friend's house
  • Sunday - garlic noodles with beef and broccoli
  • Monday - slow cooker chicken & dumplings (me) & M will have salmon (freezer), as he's not much of a soup fan. I know, I don't understand it either ;-) 
  • Tuesday - leftover garlic noodles with beef & broccoli
  • Wednesday - taco salads (prepped meat from the freezer)
  • Thursday - any remaining leftovers
  • Friday - we are flying to Boulder to see Nick for family weekend, so likely something at my friend's house, once we land. 
What about you? Any new recipes to share? Are you transitioning over to more fall recipes? What are your favorites? Would love any slow cooker favorites!

Saturday, September 13, 2025

Saturday Happenings

 It's been a very full week! I had a late night call on Thursday with Tokyo + London (hence the need for the call until 11 pm) & then early starts (6 am) all week. My body was feeling the drag, especially with the post travel jet lag, getting a flu shot & having some minor responses to that, etc. 

I got so much done yesterday, and felt like I really turned the corner with a three month work project. HURRAH! I should have a draft to share with my boss next week, when I make a one night trip to San Diego to meet up with her. The only real downside is that might flight leaves at 6 am, so I can make it to my first meeting at 9:30. Wish me luck! I fly back the next day, so it's very much an in & out trip.

Things for today:

  • A short run
  • Menu plan 
  • Grocery list
  • M will go to Costco, and I'll go to the local store for a few smaller items we need (and, oat milk, as Costco doesn't carry it, AFAIK)
  • Meet up with a friend for a hike & chat, as we haven't been able to catch up for months due to various schedule challenges
  • Pick up a cake from the bakery
  • Maybe get a pedicure? Will depend on timing. My toes are in rough shape from running
  • Laundry
  • M & I are having dinner at a friend's house

Time permitting, I would love to get another two hours done on my project, but not sure how realistic that is. We shall see how productive I am!

What about you? What are you up to today?

Friday, September 12, 2025

Frugal Friday

 It was a busy week, with all of the jet lag & a pile of work that seemed to just multiply over night. As is the trouble with work travel, my standard work (e.g. not the whole meeting each other, spending time understanding what the local team is up to) just piles up in my absence. So even though I'm absolutely working on trips, it's not the same type of work, which means unfortunately a lot to catch up on. 

Saving on things we buy

  • I go through my credit card bonus reward offers each month, and save them to my card. I use the offers infrequently, and only when it's part of a regularly planned purchase, but sometimes I'm pleasantly surprised when an offer comes through. This week I received three: a Southwest reward of $15.62 & a $6.92 reward from Seat Geek (where I allowed Nick to purchase football game tickets), and Google Play (a Spotify subscription, which was a gift to Nick) for $1.19. The money gets credited back to your account as a payment, so it works great. I also used a Southwest credit for part of a flight. The tickets are for my flight to Las Vegas. 
  • I uploaded all of our receipts to Fetch, and one receipt (CVS, for my prescription) to iBotta. I rarely use iBotta for anything but CVS, but they have a recurring cash back offer that is super helpful. Saved $.22 on my prescription. 

Earning money

  • My paycheck felt very hard-earned with the travel last week!

Avoiding spending 

  • Promptly returned clothes that I purchased & didn't need for my work trip, which saved some money. To be clear, I kept the items I did need, so this was just the stuff that I wasn't going to use. 
  • About half of the order I'd placed for work clothes didn't arrive on time, despite paying for expedited shipping. I used the customer chat function and asked for a partial refund. They credited me back for the entire amount of shipping, which was helpful. 

Eating what we have

  • On the Uber ride back home from my flight, I'd sent a Door Dash lunch to myself at home. We arrived at the house at the same time. However, Sam hadn't answered the phone when I called to see if he wanted me to add anything to the order for him. He was sick, but also very hungry, so he ate 90% of the chicken salad I ordered. You might be asking how this relates to eating what we have, but the good news is that I was hungry enough not to care, so I ate microwave popcorn and an apple & called it a day. (The lunch was purchased using monthly credit card rewards for Door Dash, plus a gift card.)
  • M made me a gorgeous breakfast using a lot of odds & ends in the fridge, when I woke up like a bear from hibernation on Saturday morning. Given how much I slept, that analogy felt right. The last of the bagels & eggs, some leftover melon & part of a pear. 
  • Used two packages of Boursin cheese, well past their "best by" date. We ended up making this pasta/chicken dish, as Sam asked me to make enough for leftovers for him to eat when he got home late from work. The base of the recipe was okay, but it needs a couple of tweaks, IMO: add broccoli or another veggie at the very end, to steam. And, I think it needs a bit more spice. 

For others

  • I used an Alaska gift card (purchased on sale at Costco at Christmas time) to buy my sister's flight to Las Vegas, as her birthday gift. 
  • Two neighbors randomly reached out on Saturday to ask if we could pick up packages off of their porch & keep them in our garage until they are back in town, so we did that over the weekend. 
What about you? Any wins to share?

Thursday, September 11, 2025

Thursday things

 I'm going to channel my inner Kim (at Out My Window) & make a list today. Things are wild here, with work. I know the timing of this role could never have happened unless we had kids of independent ages. M is working in the city, with a long commute. I have lots of travel, super early mornings that would prevent me from any school drop offs, etc. And, just overall volume of work on both sides is intense.

Here's what I need to get done today:

  • Meetings start at 6 am, which is always a treat ;-) 
  • Get 3 items done off of my 90 day work plan
  • Figure out why I can't add any Japanese colleagues to expense report. This is blocking me from getting it submitted.
  • Sort out schedule for next week, including impromptu overnight trip to San Diego, for work.
  • Talk to Sam about: his schedule for the upcoming weeks, get access to college billing, and make a final decision about family weekend & if he can go
  • Workout class. I felt terrible yesterday after my flu shot, so didn't work out. Not getting in consistent cardio leaves me feeling like a slug, so it's a must do today.
  • Talk to the accountant about my IRS "fun"
  • I've hired a cleaning service & they come every other week. Today is the day. Juggle rooms, so I can stay on calls & stay out of their way. This is money well spent for this season of my life. 
  • Change flights for next weekend, to arrive earlier. 
If I get all of that done, I will be incredibly thrilled. 

Monday, September 8, 2025

September Goals

 Definitely late to the party for September, but as with many things, better late than never!

Family:

  • Finish 401K max
  • Check in on 529 contributions & max
  • Meal plan, & use up 3 freezer/pantry items
Family:
  • Enjoy Family Weekend with Nick
  • Start cleaning out the closet of "things" leftover when Nick moved out
  • Help Sam with the start of fall classes
  • One date night with M
Fitness:
  • Lose 2 lbs
  • Get back to regular fitness checkins
  • 15 & 15 (strength training, no S days)
  • Half marathon training plan
  • Stay on track on trips (Boulder + London)
  • Average 12,000 steps/day
Personal:
  • Get together with friends x2
  • Finish planning November concert trip
  • Say yes to adventure & trying new things
  • Continue to explore work/life balance
  • Declutter 50 items
  • Work on planning travel & budgets

What about you? What's on your goal list for September?

Sunday, September 7, 2025

Another haphazard menu plan

 Things were again a bit nuts around our house, and I have zero clue what M & Sam ate while I was gone. ;-) I'm back now, and trying to sort life back out. I'll start with a menu plan, as that always helps.


  • Friday - I wasn't in the mood for dinner (body clock was way off), so sat with the boys while they had a salad, grilled chicken (freezer) for M & taquitos (freezer) for Sam
  • Saturday - Philly cheese steaks
  • Sunday - chicken fajitas (using the rest of the peppers from the Philly cheese steak recipe
  • Monday - leftover cheese steak & peppers on salads
  • Tuesday - chicken with Boursin cheese (have some to use up), so trying this recipe
  • Wednesday - leftover chicken fajitas
  • Thursday - leftover chicken with Boursin cheese
  • Friday - remaining leftovers, or wings & pot stickers

What about you? What's on your menu this week? Any recent recipes to share? 

Saturday, September 6, 2025

Saturday Happenings

 I'm back & slept for close to 12 hours yesterday. I could have slept longer, but my back protested. I'm feeling very groggy this morning!

It was a lot of transportation for a trip, and I'm still bitter that I had to fly into Narita (the airport much further from the city) vs Haneda. It had probably been 10 years since I flew into Narita, and I was very much reminded of why, as the logistics of getting to/from the airport are terrible. I'm not up for the train after such a long journey, with my bags. When I landed, after a delayed flight, the next available bus ride was almost two hours wait. Followed by a two hour bus ride. :-( I will protest mightily if my company requires it again. 

The weather in Tokyo was extremely hot & humid, which being a west coast girl, I'm not used to nor a fan of. Then, a typhoon was expected to hit on Friday. I don't know if it actually qualified as a typhoon, but it was an absolute insane amount of rain & wind. I'm grateful my flight left, but it was also delayed. 

It was good to spend time with various team members, and the hotel I stayed at was perfectly acceptable, but the location of this office was not as convenient to the hotel vs previous trips. Given the weather, that was a hassle. I also got to meet my nephew for ramen & a beer one night, as he happened to be in Tokyo visiting a friend. It was fantastic to get to see him & we successfully navigated the train to go a few stops away. I do not miss the Tokyo weather in the summer.

I'm back for two weeks, and then we head to Denver for Nick's family weekend. I will leave Denver & head to London for my last work trip of 2025. HURRAH. 

When I woke up this morning, I hadn't eaten in 18 hours, so M made me a lovely breakfast while I inhaled two lattes (double my standard amount!) 

Things I need to do today:

  • Work out
  • Sign up for workout classes this week
  • Work on my schedule & plan for the week
  • Sort out Las Vegas schedule with friends
  • I bought a bunch of clothes for the trip, not knowing exactly what I would need. I can now return almost everything I bought online, and a few things I bought in person. I ended up with a very good work capsule wardrobe, perfect for one week trips. Unfortunately, I was in London recently enough that my manager (a bit of a clothing person) is likely to remember my outfits as the same. ;-) May have to add in something different this time. 
  • Laundry
  • Finish unpacking
  • Catch up on bills & the budget
  • Start expense report
  • Pick up my prescription
What about you? What are you up to today? 

Saturday, August 30, 2025

Saturday Happenings

I had an incredibly productive day yesterday, as I scrambled to get all of my work wrapped up, try on conservative office attire, get packed, work out, & plan logistics for next week. I also was able to get much of the coordination done for my pre-birthday friends trip to Las Vegas, which needed to happen, so the reservations can get booked. We are going on Halloween weekend to see a concert, and that's a busy time there & we need to lock in the hotel & dining. 

We also had a neighbor who inadvertently received a large delivery of frozen food, but was out of town. She called for help, so M & I brought the package to our house & quickly determined that there was zero chance everything was fitting in our freezer. We then went over to our elderly neighbor, and she was able to make freezer space. While we were there, we helped her with a couple of chores that she couldn't do. Initial neighbor was thrilled, food was saved, elderly neighbor had a few bonus chores done. It was a bit of a time hit, but nice to help people. 

Nick was at the Boulder game. While they didn't win, it does appear good times were had by all ;-)  



As for today, here's what's on my plan:
  • 5  mile run
  • Last minute packing
  • Laundry
  • Pick up the house
  • Ask M to take me to the airport for my flight

I'm unenthusiastic for the time at the airport, followed by a long flight, and then... the commute from the airport to the city. I've previously flown into Haneda airport, which is so much closer to the city. This time, I need to fly into Narita, which necessitates a 2+ hour bus or train ride. After the very long travel day, that's the last thing you would want. Hopefully things go smoothly, and I will be in my hotel by 8 pm, JST. 

What are you up to today?

Friday, August 29, 2025

Frugal Friday

It was another not frugal week, as I discovered that I needed conservative business attire for my trip to Tokyo. In my previous company, we were much more tech, so while we dressed up a bit from the standard California office attire, it was not as my boss described would be appropriate for my trip next week. So, I picked up a few things on Sunday & also placed a couple of online orders. I'll return anything that doesn't work, but it wasn't cheap & I had to pay to expedite one of the orders, to get it here on time. Sigh. 

Nick has also had a lot of "new school" expenses: application fees to rush, climbing gym add on to the gym, game tickets, school supplies, books, etc. We are sharing some of these expenses, as he didn't have a chance to work many hours over the summer, due to the prolonged restaurant closure, so we are also helping him with some of them as well. For example, we definitely want to encourage him to work out, and he & his roommate are both very into using the climbing wall at the school. The gym is free, and the add on for the climbing wall is $35/semester, which is pretty reasonable. 

Also not fitting into this frugal category, but worth noting - I called the IRS & got a 30 day extension (a missing tax form that didn't get uploaded when I did my 2023 taxes). While I hope not to use it, it takes the pressure off with all of the traveling. I have an entire rant about how I used Charles Schwab's tax import feature, and clearly not everything was imported, but that's a story for another day, and now I have some breathing room to get it resolved. 

Saving on things we buy

  • We are going back to Boulder for family weekend. I needed to cancel my return flight, as I'm heading to London instead on Sunday, rather than flying back home with M & Sam. When I cancelled the return segment of the flight, United popped up a note that I wouldn't be getting a credit, because the outbound price was miraculously the exact same price as my original round trip fare, down to the penny. I did a quick price check, and proved that was incorrect. I spent some time on the phone with United & the system glitched out when trying to pull the right price for the single flight. I will be receiving a $270 credit to my card (even better than a flight credit!), so I was thrilled that I 1) noticed and 2) took the time to track down & correct their error. 
  • I used $4 of Subway rewards when I bought lunch for myself + Sam. Now, I have $40+ of Subway gift cards, and had planned to pay with those, but the app kept glitching & I was on a tight timeline, so I paid with my credit card, which was irritating. I have gone back in & verified that my gift cards are in the app, so looks like it was a momentary problem. At first I thought they had disappeared altogether, which would have made me very displeased. Luckily, problem averted. 

Earning money

  • Received my $1500 employer HSA contribution, as well as contributed $250 of my most recent paycheck. (It takes some time to set up on the back end). 

Avoiding spending

  • Filled out my work expense report promptly, as I'm paying with my own card & getting reimbursed. (I can request a company card, but haven't jumped through those hoops yet.) It's $2600 of expenses (not including flight, which is covered on the back end by the company), so plenty of motivation to get it submitted quickly. 
  • Speaking of hoop jumping, went through a lot of steps to get Nick's health insurance for school approved. This saves $2800, so it was definitely worth all of the hoop jumping. Although, given this is my second kid in college, I will add that this process is unnecessarily hard compared to other colleges. 

Eating what we have

  • Made a creative breakfast on a day when I was pretty hungry (jet lag). Used a brioche hamburger bun, a piece of provolone cheese from a pack that needed to be used up, a sliced tomato from an earlier dinner & two eggs. It was delicious & filling. 
  • Use chicken leftovers in a salad, for a quick lunch.
  • Made my way through some protein bars that Nick left behind for breakfasts.

For others:

  • A package arrived at our house, addressed to our specific address, with another name. I posted about it on our neighborhood group, but got no takers. So, I opened the package & gave away the items (100 Solo cups) to a woman who is hosting a community event. 
What about you? Any wins to share?

Tuesday, August 26, 2025

A haphazard menu plan

 It's not really much of a "plan", but here we are!

  • Friday - I got to go out with an old coworker to one of my favorite restaurants in London - Dishoom
  • Saturday - I ate lunch on the plane, and went to bed early. I believe M had salmon & salad, and Sam ate after work
  • Sunday - I baked up the last part of a pizza & we had that with chicken
  • Monday - M grilled burgers
  • Tuesday - edamame, grilled chicken & cauliflower rice
  • Wednesday - leftover burgers
  • Thursday - chicken samosas & edamame
  • Friday - the last of the burgers, or chicken wings & gyozas, if those are all gone
It's a real "winging it" type of week! What are your go to "I don't have time to plan or prep" menu options? 

Monday, August 25, 2025

Monday things

 I've been up since 4:30, as I fell asleep at 7 pm. There's really not much point to getting adjusted before my trip to Tokyo. I've been incredibly productive this morning, as the London office is closed & I have no early meetings. Yay for bonus productivity time.

You'll notice this isn't a menu plan post, or a fitness post, but I am slowly getting back on track with my life. 

Goals for today:

  • Work out class -- treadmill version
  • Build running schedule for the week
  • Work calendar for the week
  • Figure out menu
  • Go through & update the budget
  • Call TurboTax
  • Make a list of all the AIs I took while in London, & start breaking them into next steps
  • Call Japan Airlines & sort out why I can't view or access my flight for Saturday
  • Laundry
  • Wash all of Nick's bedding
  • Return a pair of slippers I bought Nick
  • Sort flights for Las Vegas
  • All of the work & meetings
What about you? What are you up to today?