Just another Sunday

First, an observation from yesterday, where I went to three youth soccer games. . . Usually most of the teams we play are pretty well intentioned. Yesterday was a crazy day, full of kids following us through the parking lot & taunting the players (some of the things were saying . . . ), flipping off adults, a fist fight broke out, parents got ejected, a coach got ejected, and. . .while Nick was playing goalie, a player intentionally tackled him. Nick was injured & got carried off, and the offending player said he wished he broke his arm. I really feel sad that parents & coaches are not doing their part to teach sportsmanship & appropriate play. Our kids don't play for "the best" soccer club, but the definitely play for a club that focuses on player development & skills  . . . not how to foul other people. If a coach hears a kid trash talking, he will immediately pull them from the game. As it should be. Parents are also only allowed to cheer on the players.

Today is one more soccer game, but it's another nearby team. So, should be minimal drama. Also, this is soccer for 11 & 12 year olds. . . Please get a grip, adults.

Vent over. :-)

I need to squeeze a ton into my day today, as I'm leaving for the airport around 5 pm for a flight to London. I'm trying to treat the flight as a "fun" event, even though we all know it's not so much. But, I lucked into a business class flight both ways, and a business class flight does have great movie options & typically nice wine & a meal. Bright side.

Here's my plan for the day:

1. Absolutely must work out before sitting on a super long plane ride. 
2. Yoga would also be a bonus - to stretch out
3. Clean the house
4. Take Nick to soccer
5. Finish packing
6. Help Nick finish packing for science camp
7. Return overdue library books
8. Mail my mom's mother's day card
9. Help M with a meal plan
10. Laundry. Uniforms. So. many. uniforms!
11. Review the plan for the week with M & the kids

Any youth sports stories? How is your weekend going?

Frugal Friday

It was a pretty slow week, in terms of frugality, at the HP house this week. Here's what went down:

1. Scored free lemons off of the "free" table at work. One of my coworkers has an amazing lemon tree that overproduces, and sometimes they share the bounty. We use lemon juice daily in salads, so this is always a nice treat.
2. Arranged a carpool + biking option for Sam to get to his track meet. Saved time & the cost of traveling. 
3. Made dinner every night at home this week, despite some craziness between M being in the city all week, and soccer + track. The fridge is almost looking bare, which is my preferred way to enter Friday.
4. Chatted with my manager about needing to fly back from a vacation to attend a mandatory training. She agreed that I can expense my trip. Savings of $250. 
5. Almost booked an elaborate vacation on a stressful day. Instead, agreed with M that we would book it if we could get the price to 1/2 the original estimate. We'd need to be super creative with using miles for flights, cheaper lodging, etc. It's a fun challenge, & saved a bunch of money to avoid booking on a whim.

That's it for us. How frugal was your week? Any wins?

Goals for May

May is a rare month where I have two international business trips. This was not part of my plan, but I have a really challenging situation to deal with in APAC, and already had a London trip (with other attendees) already booked. So, it is what it is. I'll set reasonable goals this month, knowing that the two work trips will make some things logistically challenging.

Here's what I'm hoping to accomplish in May:

Financial:

• Keep dining out to $150 
• Come up with one way to reduce what we need/spend on an ongoing basis
• Earn another $100 in sidehustle money. Split this between college money for the kids, & an extra payment on our vacation house mortgage.

Family:

• Have one family evening together: cooking dinner, board games, etc
• Have a date night with my husband
• Continue financial help (knowledge, not money) with sister & friend
• Finalize June trips for myself & M. This was previously complete, but a change of plans means I'm back to evaluating our options & rebooking. 
• Decide on Thanksgiving plans (if any). 

Fitness/health:

• Complete another full round of 21 Day Fix
• Eat 5.5 servings a day of fruit & veggies
• Lose 3 pounds
• Run at least 8 times
• Go on 4 bike rides (I'm doing a family biking event in June) 

Work:

• Work from home 3 days
• Take two classes that I need for a work opportunity

Personal/creative:

• Make one new recipe
• Spend time with a friend
• Volunteer at least 1x
• Read a goal book ("Wishcraft".) Hoping to get some clarity on what I want to do when I'm done working at this job. 

That's it for me. What are you hoping to accomplish in May? Any big goals? 

April Goals Recap - How Did I Do?

April was a month without business travel (hurrah), but with one girls weekend. We had a fabulous time in Las Vegas. My parents also came to stay with the boys for spring break, which you'll see reflected in some of the numbers below. I also was sick for almost a week, which impacted my work out routine. Altogether, it was a good month, but definitely some areas for improvement in the months ahead. 

Financial:

• Keep dining out to $150 - Nope, we were double this. Because my parents were in town, M took them out to dinner/dessert (I was on my girls trip), & M & I had a date night while my parents watched the boys. 
• Stay within budget for girls trip. - Yes, done!
• Make final decisions on house remodel. - We've agreed to do nothing, save for air conditioning. We'll continue to save & plan until we get a bit further & see what else we might want to do with the house. 
• Come up with one way to reduce what we need/spend on an ongoing basis - we bought solar outdoor lights, to replace our battery powered lights. 
• Earn another $200 in sidehustle money. Split this between college money for the kids, & an extra payment on our vacation house mortgage. - Nope. I found $30 on the ground, but that was my only win. 
• File taxes/pay. - Yes, done & done. 

Family:

• Have one family evening together: cooking dinner, board games, etc - We did a family movie/popcorn night. 
• Have a date night with my husband - Yes! Did this when my parents were in town. 
• Continue financial help (knowledge, not money) with sister & friend - Yes, I did both this month.

Fitness/health:

• Complete another full round of 21 Day Fix - I only finished 15/21, and can tell a difference. I missed a few workouts when I was sick, and just never got back around to them. 
• Eat 5.5 servings a day of fruit & veggies - Nope, 4.3. 
• Lose 4 pounds - I did lose 1/2 a pound. I had no idea this would be so slow! But, I'll definitely take any progress. 
• Run at least 8 times - I had four runs in April. 

Work:

• Work from home 3 days - Yes!
• Take two classes that I need for a work opportunity - Nope, and I may not do them. I have another big opportunity to focus on instead, and did make progress on that front. So, considering that a win. 

Personal/creative:

• Make one new recipe - Nope. 
• Spend time with a friend - Yes, girls trip!
• Volunteer at least 1x - Nope. 
• Write for at least 4 hours on personal stuff - Not even close. Did pretty much nothing. 
• Summarize my findings from completing my Dream Bio, and plan to turn at least one of those findings into action. - Not even close. Did pretty much nothing. 

So, there you have it, folks! For those of you who think that I get so much done every day/month. . . well, sometimes I do. But, more often I have months where I have some wins, and some fails. But, it's all good! May is going to be a good month! What about you? How did you do with your April goals? 

Happy Sunday

I'm looking forward to today. Because I was out of town last weekend, my normal chores didn't get done completely, and the work week is a bit of a scramble.

Nick is subbing for a soccer game today, but has a ride. Sam has a birthday party, but will be able to ride his bike both ways. Hurrah!

Here's what I need to do today:

• Clean the house
• Make a menu plan
• Drop off a car + change of clothes at work, so I can hopefully bike tomorrow. (I'm just starting out, so can't go both ways yet).
• Make chicken broth
• Deal with a broken ice machine that has made a giant mess in the freezer
• Help Nick pack for science camp
• Start packing for my trip to London next weekend
• Manage my work week schedule
• Sort some adjustments to our summer travel plans (due to work)
• Help Sam with a few last things on his book report. My work here will be helping him get the printer up & running, not actually helping with the project.
• Work out. I'm hoping to go for a run & do yoga.

If I get that done, I'll be thrilled, and will hopefully have time to read my book.

I'll just go ahead & check off #2, and make a menu plan for the week. M will be at work dinners most nights, so I'm going to keep things easy:

Saturday - we had chicken fiesta skillet with chips & guac

Sunday - M is making kebabs & rice

Monday - leftover chicken fiesta skilet

Tuesday - leftover kebabs & rice

Wednesday - eat any remaining leftovers

Thursday - chicken enchiladas (from the freezer. My parents made them when they were here)

Friday - chicken risotto

Saturday - chicken kebabs, rice & salad

I'm traveling starting next Sunday, so I'll also make sure there are easy meal options available to M & the kids. What about you? What are you up to today? What's on your menu plan?

Frugal Friday

It's that time again! Apologies for being MIA. I was out of town last weekend on a fabulous girls trip with my sister & best friend. Many, many good times were had, and it's always so energizing to get a chance to catch up & laugh. Lots of laughing. :-)

Here are the frugal wins we've had over the past few weeks:

• Used miles (work trips) + a free room in Las Vegas for a very reasonably priced vacation. We did splurge on food, however, and it was well worth it
• Went to the airport an hour earlier than necessary to get a ride with M, and avoid an Uber.
• Even though I had no meals prepped, avoiding eating out this week. Things got pretty creative with leftovers & freezer options. ;-)
• My parents were in town last week with the boys over spring break, so we had no nanny expenses. 
• Called & modified our home owners insurance for our vacation house, and saved $50/year.

That's pretty much it on our side. What about you? Any frugal wins for the week? Hope you are gearing up for a great weekend! We have no soccer, so I'm looking forward to a nice combination of relaxing, and getting things done!

Frugal Friday

It's that time again! Another week has whizzed by, and here's a quick look at how we did with our spending/savings/frugality.

1. Found $30 on the ground on a walk! I was so excited. What a fun surprise.
2. Made all dinners at home. (Lunch is free for the adults at work.)
3. Drove the electric car for commuting all week, and charged for free at work.
4. Took advantage of a free class at work that I've been wanting to take.
5. No other purchases during the week. This is something that we consistently do every week, but our schedules are so crazy, we don't buy anything M-Thurs. Friday is usually included, but occasionally I slide a few errands in there, time permitting. It works well to keep spending in check.

So, a pretty quiet frugal week, but I'll take it! And, for those wondering about the peanut noodle bowl recipe I posted last week, it was great. I added diced chicken, and served with cilantro, sriracha, fresh lime squeezed on it, and peanuts on top. I thought it could be a bit spicier, but the toppings helped make it close to perfect. M, Sam & I loved it. Nick didn't try it, because he's super picky. ;-) Also, I served mine with angel hair pasta, as we didn't have soba noodles. 

Menu Plan Monday

Making a weekly menu helps us reduce grocery costs, avoid food waste, and stay out of restaurants. It's not perfect, and we eat a lot of leftovers but it helps. Here's what we're eating this week:

Friday - I made chicken risotto

Saturday - we had no power, so our plans for peanut noodle bowls (with chicken) were scrapped, & we got sandwiches from the Costco food court

Sunday - Grilled burgers

Monday - Chicken peanut noodle bowls

Tuesday - leftover burgers

Wednesday - leftover chicken bowls

Thursday - eat any remaining leftovers, or spaghetti & meatballs

Friday - my parents will be visiting, so I'll make tacos, guacamole & we'll have margaritas

Saturday - M will make beef kebabs & rice

Sunday - homemade chicken curry

That's it for our plans. What about you? What's on your menu for the week ahead? 

Soccer free Sunday

It's always amazing when we have an entire day without any responsibilities! Soccer is not scheduled for today, as many schools are on spring break. (We're a couple of weeks later.) Hurrah! I definitely need the time to get things done.

We were supposed to try a new peanut butter/noodle recipe last night (I was going to add in chicken, to make a bit of chicken satay like taste), but the power was out from around 4 pm to 2 am. The power company kept reassuring us it would be back soon, but we ended up having M pick up food court items from Costco for dinner. We ate by candle light, and read books in the evening. So, we're a bit behind on standard laundry/dishes chores.

I'm still getting over a bad cold, so it will likely take me longer to get things done, but I have a lot to accomplish. Here goes:

1. Make peanut sauce & prep ingredients (will have that recipe tomorrow, instead, due to power outage)
2. Make muffins (time permitting)
3. Wash all sheets & duvets
4. Clean spare room (my parents arrive on Friday)
5. Clean showers
6. Clean bathrooms
7. Clean kitchen
8. Vacuum 
9. Catch up on budget & paying bills
10. Make a packing list for my upcoming trip to Las Vegas
11. Review work schedule for next week
12. Carpool schedule
13. Nanny schedule
14. Go for a slow walk in the sun (not feeling up to a run)
15. Yoga
16. M will grill burgers for dinner
17. Try on a few dresses I ordered, and see if anything will work for my trip in a few weeks
18. Work on menu plan for my parents visit
19. Catch up on email

That's it from our side. What about you? Hope you have a relaxing & productive Sunday!

Frugal Friday

I feel like I say this every week, but, again, it's true. I wasn't expecting this week to be so challenging. But work, due to things I'm not at liberty to discuss even in vague terms here, was incredibly difficult. We survived another week, and I have a few frugal wins to report:

1. M was out of town for 10 days (back on Monday), & while I don't get into the specifics of travel details for privacy reasons, we kept the food & dining out budget in check on all sides.
2. I drove our electric car to all errands & work, and charged for free (work).
3. No eating out this week! We'd actually planned a date night tonight, but I'm struggling with a cold & we scrapped our plans.
4. Found a great gift card offer through our grocery store. Buy $50 in Home Depot gift cards, & get a $10 grocery store gift card, max of $300. I did the max, as we are in the middle of lots of house projects. I now have $60 in "free" grocery money.
5. Found $.02 on the ground. ;-) 

I hope you had a frugal week, and are preparing yourself for the week ahead. For us, that means menu planning, meal prep, and reviewing our budget to ensure things are on track! 

April Goals

I'm looking forward to April! I have a fun mini vacation in there (girls trip to Las Vegas), and my parents will be in town for about a week. I'm hoping work will also be significantly less crazy. You'll see a few repeats on there, as many of my goals are yearly goals that carry over.

Financial:

• Keep dining out to $150 
• Stay within budget for girls trip.
• Make final decisions on house remodel.
• Come up with one way to reduce what we need/spend on an ongoing basis
• Earn another $200 in sidehustle money. Split this between college money for the kids, & an extra payment on our vacation house mortgage.
• File taxes/pay.

Family:

• Have one family evening together: cooking dinner, board games, etc
• Have a date night with my husband
• Continue financial help (knowledge, not money) with sister & friend

Fitness/health:

• Complete another full round of 21 Day Fix
• Eat 5.5 servings a day of fruit & veggies
• Lose 4 pounds
• Run at least 8 times

Work:

• Work from home 3 days
• Take two classes that I need for a work opportunity

Personal/creative:

• Make one new recipe
• Spend time with a friend
• Volunteer at least 1x
• Write for at least 4 hours on personal stuff
• Summarize my findings from completing my Dream Bio, and plan to turn at least one of those findings into action.

What about you? What are you hopping to accomplish in April?

March Goals Recap

It's time to check in & see how I did with our March goals!

Financial:

• Keep dining out to $150 - We finished the month with $130, so win!
• Stay in budget for a long weekend I'm having with my Mom & Sister - Stayed within the budget, and kept the spending under $170. Goal was $150, so I'll call this a pass. 
• Pay for plans on house remodel, so we can get a finalized budget & timeline, and make prioritization - We've done the first, and have a meeting for the second. 
• Come up with one way to reduce what we need/spend on an ongoing basis - We've decided to invest in a rain water solution, to help with plant watering! Given California's drought, I'm loving this plan for the environmental impact, in addition to the cost savings. 
• Earn another $400 in sidehustle money. Split this between college money for the kids, & an extra payment on our vacation house mortgage. - I made $416 on this! There was a comment a few posts back asking for more details. For my sidehustle, it's typically selling things we no longer need/want in a few ways (eBay, Facebook swap, Craigslist, etc). This was an unusually high month, as I had an old watch + a bike that Nick had outgrown. I also counted the $25 in Swagbucks that I converted into an Amazon gift card. 
• Solve final tax issue & finalize paperwork -  handed off our final information, & just waiting for the documents to come back from the accountant. I sent a follow up email today to try & get the final forms to sign. 

Family:

• Have one family evening together: cooking dinner, board games, etc - We've had a few fun evenings, particularly for my son's birthday. We made pizza & then played games together. 
• Have a date night with my husband - Well, we made dinner & had wine together, but no evening out. It was still fabulous. 
• Continue financial help (knowledge, not money) with sister & friend - Haven't done much this month so need to get this going again this month.
• Determine timing & budget for adults only vacation - We have timing sorted, and a budget in place. 

Fitness/health:

• Complete another full round of 21 Day Fix - Yes, and I'm definitely getting stronger!
• Eat 5.5 servings a day of fruit & veggies - I'm at 4.9, so still working on getting to this.
• Lose 4 pounds - Not 4 lbs, but I did lose a pound. Given how crazy March was, I'll be happy with the (extremely) slow & steady approach. 
• Run at least 8 times - I got a couple of huge blisters on a run, so waited a bit to heal, & it's been hard to run (schedule wise) over the past week. So, I finished with 3/8. Really need to focus on this in April.

Work:

• Work from home 1 day - Yes, I actually managed two days. 
• Take two classes that I need for a work opportunity - Haven't started. Things have been crazy at work. 

Personal/creative:

• Make one new recipe - Yes, I made a chicken fried rice recipe with fridge leftovers. 
• Spend time with a friend - I had a mom/daughter weekend, so counting this. :-) 
• Volunteer at least 1x - Signed up for a couple of things that happen in April.
• Write for at least 4 hours on personal stuff - March was crazy, and this didn't happen
• Summarize my findings from completing my Dream Bio, and plan to turn at least one of those findings into action. - Nope, and need to give this one more thought. 

Overall, March turned out to be significantly crazier than I expected. A long weekend with my family overlapped with a couple of big work weeks, and what I thought would be the "calmed down" work week was anything but. Also, Michael was out of town for 10 days, meaning I was juggling everything, which created some additional logistical challenges. I'm making progress in most areas, but there are some clear areas where I'm just prioritizing other things. And, that's okay. For everything, there is a season. :-)

I'm happy that I'm finally starting to see a bit of progress with the weight loss. Not necessarily on the scale, but my clothes are definitely fitting better, and I can see more muscle tone & strength training progress, so I'll gladly take that!

What about you? How did things go with your March goals? 

Happy Easter, and a relaxing Sunday

One of the advantages of it being a holiday today, is that there are no activities planned. My parents will celebrate a belated Easter (egg hunt, baskets) with the kids in a few weeks when they are here, so we kept things very simple today. I got the boys a small shared basket of fun lunch snacks (chocolate covered pretzels, jelly beans, & gummy bears), & let them know that next Friday will be taking them to one of their favorite activities. So, that was easy!

Other than that, I actually plan to use the remainder of the day to get stuff done, and will take advantage of the time before the week begins anew. Here's what I'm hoping to get done today:

1. Work on the schedule
2. Coordinate nanny/carpool schedule
3. Clean the bathrooms
4. Clean the kitchen
5. Vacuum
6. Dust 
7. Wash all of the sheets
8. Make the beds
9. Laundry
10. Have the boys clean their rooms
11. Go for a 5 mile run
12. Yoga
13. Make a casserole for next week
14. Help Sam make cookies for a school event
15. Sweep the patio
16. Have the boys water the plants
17. Sort out Sam's upcoming track schedule
18. Call my parents
19. Find 10 things to donate - part of my ongoing decluttering efforts
20. Find 2 things to sell - ditto above, and part of my ongoing sidehustle work
21. Dinner - we're having a fancy spread of bunny shaped pasta, hot dogs, salad & finishing with ice cream topped with berries. Living large! :-) 

Happy Easter to all of you out there who celebrate.